Hello and welcome to Happy Place. I'm Van Cotton and this is the show where we

take all that negative energy and channel it into something constructive and

hopefully positive. At Lord knows we need that approach right now. Look if you are

struggling to keep your head above the water, if you are fearing the worst just

take a moment for yourself right now. Let's just all together step away from the

world and enjoy this time together. Don't feel guilty about it. We all deserve a

little bit of time out, a little bit of respite from all the anxiety and

craziness that's going on right now which I'm certainly feeling too. You might

want to slip on some headphones as this episode does feature some adult

material. It's easy to just say oh that's not my window dressing. I am not a young

woman who had an affair with a teacher. I am not a housewife in a

Dianna whose husband doesn't want to kiss her. I'm not someone who has sex with

other people in front of my spouse. So yes I wanted to tell their stories I wanted

them to feel unalone and I wanted people out in the world to feel unalone by

reading that. Told you that is the brilliant author Lisa Tadeo who has

documented the sex lives of three women for her book entitled Three Women.

Oh it's a remarkable work and it's definitely one of my favourite books of the

last 12 months. I mean I haven't been able to stop thinking about it and I was

just so happy that I was able to sit and quiz this incredible writer. Now a

massive thank you to the sponsor of this episode Betisd. Your instant hair

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