Limerence Vs Love How Obsession is Getting in the Way of you Finding Love (E)

Do You F*cking Mind?

Mindset Recreation Club

Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-improvement

5 • 862 Ratings

🗓️ 11 September 2025

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Do you find that you fall heeadd over heels with someone on a first date? Or even BEFORE the first date? Do you watch Rom-Coms and think Oh MY GOD that’s what I need. My beautiful bean you are confusing love with limerence. I’m going to take you through what limerence is, how it differs from love, why romantic movies are selling you a LIE and finally – how to chill and calm your farm when you’re dating. It might just help you find someone you’re actually compatible with! Listen to my interview with Sabrina Zohar where we talked about Limerence at https://pod.fo/e/216a82. Listen to my episode 48. Lets break down attachment theory / styles’ at https://pod.fo/e/1f8308 . Join the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DYFM Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Group Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@doyoufkingmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠on IG Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@dyfmpodcast⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on TT Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠alexisfernandezpreiksa⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on IG Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@alexispredez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on TT Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mindsetrecreationclub⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on IG Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mindsetrecreationclub⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on TT Order your Brain Journal here: ⁠⁠⁠www.mindsetrecreationclub.com⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:47.9	So today is an encore episode because I am going on maternity leave.
0:56.5	I have hand selected with my assistant, Shanai, we've hand selected episodes that we think will be like just honestly your favorite.
1:04.9	They're episodes that have either really great feedback or have been shared a lot amongst you guys or have been shared a lot
1:12.5	on socials and re-shared on stories. So we thought, you know, we'd bring back kind of the top
1:16.3	favourites or the ones that resonated the most with you guys. So I'm going on just three, well,
1:21.6	the podcast is going on three weeks of maternity leave. I am going on four months of maternity leave, but fear not,
1:30.4	fret not. I have created an entire back catalogue. So after these three weeks of encore episodes,
1:36.7	you will be receiving your normal dose of a Monday episode and a head noise episode and also some
1:42.1	really cool mini series scattered throughout up until
1:45.5	the end of the year and then I will come back for regular programming mid-January after kind
1:50.3	of the Christmas break. So without fucking around any further, enjoy the episode, the encore
1:56.4	episode of today. Love you guys so much. This is an episode that I'm actually really,
2:00.7	really excited to bring to you because it an episode that I'm actually really, really excited
2:01.2	to bring to you because it is something that I think so many of us have experienced
2:07.6	definitely myself, especially when I was younger. And it's something that's really prevalent
2:12.9	in like pop culture and films and it kind of really normalizes this feeling of limerance,
2:18.9	which is what I'm talking about, as being love. So we're going to be breaking down the difference
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