Gabby Reece was declared one of the five most beautiful women in the world, and she could certainly have made a career out of modeling. But she decided that being pretty wasn’t exactly what she wanted to bring to the table. So she pursued what turned her on, volleyball, and eventually became one of the world’s most successful female athletes. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Gabby Reece talks about how hard it is to determine precisely what you want out of life, and how difficult it is to stay focused on getting it. But she also discusses learning to be vulnerable, shares stories about childhood, marriage and motherhood, and explains why she fulfills different roles in the home than she does in her career. Check out Gabby's new podcast: https://www.gabriellereece.com/category/the-gabby-reece-show/ [Original air date: 1/29/20]. SHOW NOTES: Gabby discusses leveraging her beauty to become more successful in athletics [2:50] Being pretty is not what Gabby wants to bring to the table [5:37] How do you balance being in the present with thinking about where you’ll be in the future? [7:37] Gabby talks about how hard it is to clearly define success and stay focused on it [9:20] Gabby shares the story of her childhood trauma and how she never fit in [11:30] Gabby discusses accepting what cannot be changed [13:19] “Input from your kids is like an ice pick to the eyeball.” [16:47] Gabby credits a lot of her success to fear [19:41] Nothing in life, even a 22-year long marriage, is guaranteed [22:09] Gabby tries to bring the athlete’s attitude of excellence to her relationships too [26:05] Gabby explains why she wants to be submissive in her home life [27:57] Real alpha males need to be compassionate and honorable [30:35] Lisa and Gabby discuss differences between women and men [35:30] Gabby talks about the need to figure out what you really want [40:05] Gabby discusses her attempts to become more vulnerable and more tender [42:22] You have to lose to win [44:54] Gabby shares her superpower [47:25] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW GABBY: WEBSITE: gabriellereece.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/38O3Wfd FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2t8xZz2 TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2Rv811Y FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices