Letting hurtful words or threatening comments become the new normal
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 18 May 2021
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
When you're around those who constantly put you down with hurtful words or threats that they'll never talk to you again or leave you forever, it can become the new normal. Those who try to make you feel like something bad will happen if you don't change into what they want you to be are hoping you don't catch on to their deception to keep you in a fear-based state forever.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior |
| 0:15.1 | so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:31.4 | Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Welcome to love and abuse. |
| 0:33.1 | This is the show that helps you determine what kind of relationship you're in. |
| 0:38.4 | Helps you determine where the problem areas are. |
| 0:42.6 | And if you tuned into this show for the first time, just know that all the information on love |
| 0:47.2 | and abuse is meant for educational purposes only. |
| 0:50.2 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:53.0 | And always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:55.8 | If you don't know what that means, listen to all the other episodes I've done in love and abuse, |
| 0:59.9 | because there are some battles that are not worth fighting. |
| 1:03.8 | In fact, I'd like to talk about some battles that aren't worth fighting today, |
| 1:07.9 | and that is when you are with someone and they tell you |
| 1:13.4 | something that you choose not to take at face value and how that becomes a new normal |
| 1:21.9 | in the relationship you're in. |
| 1:24.9 | This could be for any relationship. |
| 1:26.5 | Whatever relationship you're in, friend, be for any relationship. Whatever relationship you're in, |
| 1:27.8 | friend, family, romantic, doesn't matter. If somebody says something that is hurtful or mean, |
| 1:36.9 | or they say they're going to do something and you choose not to take it at face value, |
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