Quick question, is it normal if you like can't stand the person that you're dating?

Like if every time they text you or they call you, you roll your eyes to the point that they almost get stuck in the back of your head.

And you're just like, oh, gosh, if only you would just text me less and call me less, and then you just dread.

You dread the thought of you guys spending time together, but you just push it through.

Because, you know, people tell you, you're getting older.

You can't be that picky. You got to just, you got to just give

people a chance. So you are doing your best giving people a chance. It's honestly,

genuinely remind me of those funny videos you see online when the girl can, or the girl or the boy, well, it's funnier when it's a girl. When the girl can't stand her boyfriend. And she's just like, oh, yeah. Do we have to invite him? I mean, do we need to do that? And you're just like, okay, I guess that's just called love. Yeah, so I'm in one of those loving relationships right now. I wouldn't

say it's a relationship. Okay, here's the thing. I'm going to break up with him. Well, actually,

you tell me, one, is that normal? Like, I literally cannot stand this person. Like, I hate him,

actually. Low key, I hate this person. And stand this person. Like I hate him, actually. Low key,

I hate this person. And then I feel guilt that I hate him because I also understand that

everyone really wants love. Well, you know what? Why don't we start in the beginning?

Hi, everyone. I'm Vila Benson and you're listening to a brand new Daddy Issues podcast of

Let's Talk where we every Tuesday just shoot the shit. I FaceTime you only. This is audio only.

So there's no FaceTime, but think of this as me sending your voice note and the episodes are just all unfiltered, unedited.

I edit nothing except obviously just

fixing up the audio, but genuinely, except that. I do nothing, okay, except speak to you.

I don't know if you know this, but recently, lately, I have been dating. I started dating again. And when and when i tell you like i'm dating dating

when it rains it pours so i just have so many dating stories and of course i don't want to make

this let's talk just about dating but i just need your advice girls besties guys gays daze maze zays you know help me out tell me what you think because i feel like this whole time

when i was already been thinking about recording this episode i would think about the things that i would say in my

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