I'm watching this reel on Instagram and this girl was like, just a reminder in case you were feeling down bad or bad about yourself that I once bought NFL tickets for a guy that I've been seeing for approximately three months for his birthday.

And then I told him that also had free airplane tickets and free Airbnb tickets. I never heard of that happening just to convince him to come with me because I knew that if I told them that he had to pay, then he wouldn't come. And I didn't have, obviously, free airplane tickets or free in VRB. I pay for that shit. Anyway, he came. I also didn't have free NFL tickets, by the way. I spent $250 on the NFL tickets, $250 on each, and then $250 each on the plane tickets, and also,

let's see what else you say, the Airbnb.

Anyway, so then he came and he proceeded to call his close friends when he got there

and ended up spending the entire weekend hang out with them instead of me.

Anyway, we did go to the game that I paid for. And then when we flew home, two or three days later, he ended things with me. Did you think I was going to say he proposed? No. She says he ended things with me. So just to remind if you're down bad, you could have spent over $2,000 on a man who's not your man. Then I'm reading all the comments. And the comments are obviously hilarious because people are like, oh my God, you wouldn't be able to waterboard this information out of me. Where are your friends? Free and be or B tickets? That had me in tears. Girl, D, is not that expensive. It's cheap or free. Babe, I don't even know what to say. I don't want to shake you, but also I feel really bad for you.

Or this is the lesson why we don't pay for things for men. She's right. And then other people were like, you would not be able to get this information out of me. And I don't know what she said. Anyway, the point is that, you know know I see this video and I'm just like girl that's crazy and then I remembered there was a time then I remembered hey maybe it's

time for me to jump off this high horse I was sitting on when I watched that video because I

remembered there was a time so I said you what? I'll just share it on this episode where, you know,

we talk and I tell you things I normally wouldn't and I don't edit anything out like I promise.

So it's a full on unedited, my breathing included.

Because as you know, I hate that sound.

So I said, okay, I'll share because there was a time.

By the way, hi, I'm Violetta Benson, aka Viola Benson.

I just, the reason I sometimes say Violetta and sometimes Violet,

it's actually because I have not been able to decide what name I want to go by.

Like you would think by now, I would know, but no, I just really like both.

Like I like violetta.

It sounds mysterious.

Like when a man calls me violetta, I feel something, excitement.

And Violet just does seem more like my characters.

Maybe Viola Venson.

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