Welcome back to the female dating strategy, the meanest female only podcast on the internet.

I'm your host, Patricia.

And I'm Rose. And I love being the meanest female only podcast on the internet.

Don't you, Patricia?

I don't know if we are the meanest right now, but we were the original meanest.

And today we are going to be a little quote unquote mean.

And by mean, I mean that we're going to act in our own self-interest.

What? Oh my God. Outrageous.

Yes. I mean, I love when you suggest this episode topic. I was like, yeah, I feel like this doesn't actually get discussed openly and honestly enough because we get so much flack when we come out. We get called every name in the book if we're actually just open about the things that we like sexually. And that includes what we prefer in our partners.

I know that is outrageous, but it is the truth. It is the truth. And for some reason, like, it can

either be portrayed. Like, when I was rolling around with this episode idea, I was also thinking

about, let's say, the show Sex and the City, which definitely did talk about this kind of thing, but then it is portrayed as kind of sexually deviant.

I don't know if you know this, but it's the famous trope that the show is written by gay men.

Like it was how gay men would fantasize about being women.

I actually didn't fact check this, so don't come at me.

But what I'm trying to say is that there is a world and there is a way to talk about

sexual preferences and also it not being lewd.

You know what I mean?

It doesn't have to be like, I don't want to include Samantha, but, you know,

it doesn't have to be Samantha. It can also be to use sex in the city tropes. It can also be

Charlotte. You don't have to be Samantha to talk about sexual preferences. It's okay. You can be a

quote unquote good woman and still prefer some things sexually.

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