Let’s talk about marriage with Gary Thomas
Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids
Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
4.9 • 849 Ratings
🗓️ 31 March 2022
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
If you’re married, or hope to be married, or have kids that may someday get married—today’s podcast is for you!
I’ve heard over and over again how amazing Gary Thomas is, and today’s the day we get to have him on Pardon the Mess. I can’t get over how much marriage wisdom is packed into our conversation, and here’s a few of the topics we covered:
- Is the goal of marriage to be happy or holy
- The misnomer of being in a “hard marriage”
- What if I married the wrong person
- Red flags and critical conversations to have with your kids about dating
I can’t wait for you to hear these important words from Gary about our marriages. And I’ll leave you with a great quote from the show: “A great marriage is not something you find, it’s something you make.”
Take a minute to listen to today’s show and then forward it to your spouse!
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| 0:00.0 | Christian Parenting. |
| 0:03.5 | This is Cynthia Yanov, and you're listening to Pardon the Mess. |
| 0:16.1 | Each week we have honest discussions about the ups and downs of parenting and the lessons God is teaching us along the way. It's real, it's fun, and it's biblical. Life is messy. Don't walk |
| 0:26.1 | the parenting road alone. If you're looking for a way to be intentional and specific and praying |
| 0:34.4 | for your kids, let me suggest you check out Parenting Prayer Challenge.com. Over 2,000 parents have already taken this challenge, |
| 0:41.3 | and they're praying intentionally and specifically for their kids. And so this is a |
| 0:44.7 | completely free challenge, and it's 31 days of emails that come with scripture and a specific |
| 0:49.2 | topic to pray of your kids each day, purity, integrity, purpose, self-image, salvation. |
| 0:55.0 | These are some of the topics you'll be praying for your kids. And so you sign up. All you need is an email address. |
| 0:58.8 | It's free and you start receiving these emails. And it's just a great way to build a powerful |
| 1:02.9 | habit of praying over our kids. So check it out, Parenting Prayer Challenge.com. |
| 1:10.3 | Hey guys, welcome to Part of the Mess. |
| 1:12.3 | I'm so glad you're with us today and you are going to be so glad you're with us today |
| 1:16.6 | because for the first time ever on this show, we have Gary Thomas. |
| 1:20.1 | And I don't know where I've been. |
| 1:21.1 | I don't know why we haven't had him on before because he is awesome. |
| 1:24.7 | And he's written probably books you've heard of. |
| 1:26.6 | Gary Thomas has written sacred marriage, sacred parenting. |
| 1:29.4 | He's got a book out called Cherish, lots of different books. |
| 1:32.4 | But today he's chatting with us about our marriages, which are so critical to our parenting. |
| 1:37.0 | So we're talking about that. |
| 1:38.5 | What is marriage? |
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