In this lesson's episode, we're going to talk about why your relationship feels dead.

You look at your partner, you feel nothing.

You think it means you chose wrong, but it doesn't.

Every long relationship cycles through falling in and out of love multiple times.

Now, most people leave during the out phase and never make it back to the end.

I'll reveal the three phases every relationship cycles through and how to choose

going back in and falling back into love instead of leaving when everyone else does.

Let's talk about why falling out of love is normal, but leaving isn't.

Now, just a quick note before I get into this, this is not my usual content.

I don't usually write and podcast about relationships, but I've been thinking about this particular topic a lot because it really affects everything else.

Your relationship with your spouse, your significant other, it bleeds into your work,

into your focus, into your energy, into your decision making, into whether you're building or just

surviving, and a bad relationship drains everything. A good one compounds everything. And the

difference between a bad and a good relationship isn't what most people think. So here it is. This is why I want to talk about

relationships. Year three, month seven in your relationship. You're making dinner together. You realize

that you haven't had a real conversation in weeks, not an argument, not logistics about who's

picking up groceries or when rent is due, a real conversation. And then you look at them across the kitchen

and you feel nothing, not anger, not resentment, just absence. The person you couldn't stop thinking

about three years ago. The one who made your chest tight when they walked into a room, you got

butterflies, right? The one who you stayed up until 3 a.m. talking to because sleep felt like a waste of

time together. The person is standing right there and you feel like roommates. This is the moment

most people panic because they think falling out of love means it's over. And I'm here to tell you it's

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