Leftover 17th Anniversary Questions #2
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 3 October 2025
⏱️ 81 minutes
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October 3, 2025
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Deserved listeners. I thought I would continue to answer the questions from the survey that we sent out for the 17th anniversary live show. |
| 0:09.7 | I got to a lot of the questions during the live show, but also in the last episode, I answered a bunch of questions, so I thought I'd continue. |
| 0:18.0 | This question is from Anonymous. They say, I'll just summarize. |
| 0:22.4 | They're asking, well, let's see, how do I summarize? They're asking, how do I apologize |
| 0:30.1 | for secretly reading my spouse's messages, text messages or something. |
| 0:38.3 | But in the process of invading her privacy, I very much discovered that she was trying to hook up with her ex by texting them at 2 a.m. in the morning saying, hey, come over a booty call kind of thing. |
| 0:57.0 | And the other person said, oh, I'm busy and I don't have a car or something like that. |
| 1:02.3 | So Anonymous is saying, how do I apologize for invading the privacy of my spouse's phone. |
| 1:12.1 | And I would say, apologize. |
| 1:15.3 | Just say, you're sorry for invading your partner's privacy. |
| 1:19.6 | I mean, that's your question. |
| 1:21.2 | But I think the real question you're asking is, how do I deal with the situation? |
| 1:26.2 | Because, yes, I invaded their privacy, |
| 1:29.0 | but I also found out that they were trying to cheat on me and God knows what else that they are |
| 1:34.7 | doing or do they want to be in a relationship with me. And yeah, it's upsetting. Also in your |
| 1:41.9 | question, you were saying that your spouse is refusing to talk about it |
| 1:48.1 | because you invaded her privacy. She's essentially saying, I'm not going to talk with you about |
| 1:54.8 | any of this because you invade my privacy. I find that to be a massive avoidant cop out. |
| 2:00.8 | Yeah, it was wrong. |
| 2:02.3 | I mean, I don't know, but to me, the transgression scale, if you will, breaking it, you know, |
| 2:11.4 | if I invaded my wife's privacy and looked at her phone without her knowledge, that would be a violation. |
| 2:18.4 | But if she cheated on me, I mean, you know, everyone can have their own scale, but I'm just |
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