Learning To Suffer Well | Full Auto Friday | 5.01.2026
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🗓️ 1 May 2026
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Summary
Four questions this week. The kind that don't have clean answers.
A guy whose father murdered his mother is asking how to get back to who he was before. He's not.
A 28-year-old still living at home is watching his mom's cancer come back and trying to figure out how to spend the time he has left.
A man in his sixties wants to know how to bring up suicide with three friends he's had for 40 years before it's too late.
A 31-year-old in his first long-term relationship doesn't feel anything for the woman he's dating but knows everyone around him likes her. I talk about why the people you see online keeping it together aren't keeping it together. I talk about why the snapshot isn't the whole picture.
I talk about why the first therapist who wants to sell you his book isn't the last therapist you'll need to find. I talk about going right at the hard conversation instead of around it. And I talk about why bringing the government into a relationship you're already unsure about is the wrong move.
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| 0:00.0 | Okay, got the red smoke. |
| 0:03.1 | Gun runs, north and south, west of the smoke. |
| 0:07.4 | West of the smoke. |
| 0:09.1 | Okay, copy, west of the smoke. |
| 0:11.2 | I'm looking at danger close now. |
| 0:13.6 | I'm all winter, baby. |
| 0:14.5 | Give it to me. |
| 0:15.0 | I need it. |
| 0:16.0 | You're cleared hot. |
| 0:17.2 | Copy, cleared hot. |
| 0:19.3 | Hello, everybody. By the time you start this, it's going to be Friday. I guess if you start it on the day that it releases. You could start it any day you want to. I have no idea where this goes once it goes on the internet. So maybe it's going to be on a Friday. Maybe you're going to find this years later from now. I don't know. But if it's a Friday, I hope you're doing, I hope you're doing good. I hope you had a good |
| 0:40.9 | week and you get ready to ease off into the weekend. I have nothing but traditional Q&A for today. |
| 0:48.5 | So how about it? Let's get into it. Away we go. Good morning, Andy. My name is redacted. I was tempted to use your name in this |
| 0:58.9 | because you reference your father's name in a very Googlable instance, but I'm going to leave it |
| 1:05.9 | out of this just because even though you can find your dad, I don't want to have your name |
| 1:09.7 | associated with this. All right. I'm sure people could find it, but I digress. I love your podcast and new book, |
| 1:15.4 | and I hope it helps me with my mental health struggles on a daily basis. I have been a puddle of |
| 1:20.1 | gasoline waiting on a match since April 1st, 2017. My dad, whose name I'm going to leave out of this |
| 1:26.8 | as well, murdered my mom in a location |
| 1:31.0 | that I'm going to lay out of this as well, which was all over the news. I also, like you, |
| 1:36.7 | went through a bad divorce in the past with an ex-wife that turned my kids against me, |
| 1:41.0 | which to this day, my relationship with my kids have been very superficial, sadly. |
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