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Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Learning to Resolve Conflict

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2020

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

In the heat of an argument, it's easy to say something to your spouse that you later regret. When you're angry after a conflict, it's critical to deal with it rather than stuff it away. John, Greg and Erin will give some helpful solutions for dealing with anger and conflict well.

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0:00.0

When his wife became pregnant with their fourth child Greg panicked, but a focus on the family counselor put everything into perspective.

0:09.0

He said, the first thing you need to realize if kids are a blessing, or all of the

0:14.1

blessing, that their gifts from God, and the second thing you said was, kids value

0:18.7

relationships, not stuff. Greg and his wife found the encouragement they needed and today they have a happy thriving family of seven children.

0:27.0

We have been really influenced by the culture and by just the kind of overall negativity about kids and to hear from someone, you know,

0:38.0

just godly truth that kids are special, that they're wanted and that they're a blessing was huge to us.

0:45.2

I'm Jim Daly and we love kids.

0:48.2

Let's work together to give more families hope, like Greg's.

0:51.8

When you donate today, your gift will be doubled at

0:54.4

Focus on the Family.com slash gift.

1:00.0

Thank you for downloading the Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast.

1:05.0

You can find more relationship insights at focus on the family.

1:10.0

dot com slash marriage podcast.

1:12.0

Well, few of us enjoy conflict with our spouse.

1:15.0

I certainly don't.

1:16.0

It throws me off beat.

1:18.0

It's like I'm another person and I'm saying things and expressing things that I regret usually and then I have to dig out of that

1:26.8

hole and it's just no fun and maybe you can relate.

1:30.7

I'm John Fuller along with Aaron and Greg Smalley who lead our marriage team here at Focus.

1:35.7

And today we're going to hear more from a conversation Jim Daly and I had with author Catherine

1:40.6

Hill about conflict in marriage and Catherine is in charge of kind of a

1:45.6

sister ministry of focus on the family in the UK called Care for the Family.

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