Learning To Let Go Inside The Life Of A Death Doula With Darnell Lamont Walker

Finding Genius Podcast

Richard Jacobs

Medicine, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Join us in this episode as Darnell Lamont Walker sits down to discuss his powerful new book, Never Can Say Goodbye: The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End.

Darnell is a Death Doula, Emmy-nominated writer, and cultural anthropologist whose work lives at the intersection of creativity, care, and transition. Whether he's supporting individuals and families through the final stages of life or creating meaningful stories for children, his mission remains the same: to help people navigate life's most profound moments with compassion, clarity, and grace.

This conversation covers:

What a death doula is.
How to approach end-of-life planning with intention and peace.
The emotional and spiritual dimensions of dying.
How to support loved ones through grief and transition.

Want to learn how to reframe your relationship with death, and why storytelling plays such a vital role in how we process grief, love, and letting go? Hit play now!

Follow along with Darnell and his work by visiting his website!

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Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hellodarnell

🛍️ Recommended Books from this Episode

📖 Never Can Say Goodbye: The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End – A heartfelt and illuminating account of what it means to accompany others through the final chapter of life with compassion, dignity, and presence.
👉 Get it here

📘 The Good Death: A Guide for Supporting Your Loved One through the End of Life – A practical and compassionate handbook for families and caregivers helping a loved one navigate the dying process with understanding and emotional support.
👉 Check it out

📙 A Death Doula's Guide to a Meaningful End – A thoughtful guide offering tools, rituals, and insights for creating purposeful moments and connection at the end of life.
👉 Explore it here

📕 Caring for the Dying: The Doula Approach to a Meaningful Death – A classic resource on how death doulas support emotional, spiritual, and practical needs to foster peaceful and meaningful transitions.
👉 Discover it here

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0:37.3	Hello, this is Richard Jacobs with the Finding Genius podcast. My guest today is Darnel Lamont Walker. He's the author of a book called Never Can Say Goodbye, The Life of a Death Dula and the Art of a Peaceful End. So I think it's going to be a really interesting call. So welcome to Darnal. Thanks for coming. Thanks for having me.
0:54.3	I'm happy to be here.
0:55.6	Yeah.
0:55.9	How did you, I mean, most people don't want to talk about death and they rather avoid it. But why do you embrace it? Why did you write this book? And why do you do what you do? Yeah, right on. You know, I was one of those kids who was just all, I was so curious about everything.
1:09.6	And I had a grandmother who did this work,
1:13.6	not so much as work, but as just someone who took care of people. And I, so I, growing up,
1:19.7	watching her do this repeatedly for friends, for family, it was sort of a thing that was just
1:24.7	ingrained in me. I was going to school and holding grief circles at
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