Learn to Work On Yourself Before Criticizing Others with Dr. David Buss
The Tai Lopez Show
Tai Lopez
4.8 • 6.9K Ratings
🗓️ 5 October 2019
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
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We are all flawed.
But instead of trying to fix our own issues, we point the flaws in other people. This is an inescapable part of the human condition; it’s easier to look outwards than it is to look inwards.
On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by world-renowned evolutionary psychologist, Dr. David Buss, to discuss how to fix ourselves. Professor Buss is the author of The New Science of the Mind, and currently teaches at the University of Texas at Austin. He has previously taught at Harvard and the University of Michigan, and today he explains the mechanics behind human psychology.
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Points to Keep In Mind
- Host networking events at your house once a month and invite people you want to connect with
- Bullying is a massive predictor for psychological problems
- Machiavellianism is a trait in people who pursue in an interpersonally exploitative strategy
- This can be masked in charisma
- Narcissism is a sense of entitlement and skewed value of others vs. value of themselves (welfare-tradeoff ratio)
- Agreeableness is flexibility, patience, gentleness, and forgiveness
- Conscientiousness is diligence, prudence, organization, and perfection
- High psychopathy scores are void of empathy and impermeable to learning how to improve
- Entrepreneurs score the worst on dark triad tests
- Narcissism is tied to creativity and intelligence
- Biggest red flags in long-term mate: high neuroticism or low agreeableness
- High psychopathy scores are incapable of being fixed
Resources
- Read The H Factor of Personality to learn how to categorize people
- Use Dark Triad Personality Test to find out how people score on machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy
- Narcissism Personality Test to find out which how you score on: authority, self-sufficiency, superiority, exhibitionism, exploitativeness, vanity, entitlement
- Read the 25 Cognitive Biases to learn what elements of human psychology to integrate into your ads
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I'd rather have a good life than try to eat and pull out the maximum amount of money in my life. |
| 0:06.0 | I'm telling you, going for the maximum amount of money in your life in my experience will decrease the quality of your life. |
| 0:13.0 | And what good is money if you don't like life, right? |
| 0:21.0 | High status people are those to whom the most people pay the most attention. |
| 0:27.0 | And so just the fact that there are, in this case, I don't know 100 people here or if you're in a stage of 30 or 1000 or 10,000, |
| 0:36.0 | all the attention is focused on you and just simply due to the attention structure you rise in steps. |
| 0:42.0 | I'll tell you one interesting funny anecdote about that. |
| 0:45.0 | This is also true in chimpanzees, the attention structure. |
| 0:48.0 | And once there was this true story, there was this funny looking chimpanzee who everyone kind of stared at, |
| 0:56.0 | not because they were high in status, but because they were funny looking. |
| 0:59.0 | And this chimpanzee, it was a male chimpanzee, rose in status simply because everyone was paying attention to it. |
| 1:05.0 | So it was just weird looking. |
| 1:06.0 | It was just weird looking. |
| 1:07.0 | Now, I'm not recommending that as a way to get into that. |
| 1:09.0 | They call that nightclubs guys do peacocking. |
| 1:12.0 | If you read books by pickup artists, they're like, go and wear a crate. |
| 1:17.0 | I had a friend, no joke. |
| 1:18.0 | He used to wear glasses that blinked all the way. |
| 1:22.0 | They had lights. |
| 1:23.0 | Hermon. |
| 1:24.0 | You guys know Dr. Fresco. |
| 1:26.0 | He's a Ph.D. |
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