Hi, it's Jay Parker. Last time I did a quickie, well, on this podcast, not with my husband,

I suggested learning more about your body. Today, I encourage you to learn more about his body.

Your husband is God's handiwork as well, and understanding how his unique body works can help you feel more

confident touching and pleasuring him. That knowledge also helps you to better understand

how his body fits with your own body. For instance, did you know that men tend to have

thicker skin and thus prefer greater pressure than women often desire? Did you know that the stretch of skin

between the head and the shaft is the most sensitive part of the penis? Did you know that the greatest

release of oxytocin, also known as the bonding chemical, happens for him at orgasm? That's why many

men claim that sex makes them feel closer to their wife,

because physiologically, it does. These are tendencies, of course, not guarantees, which is why it's

good to learn both about the male body in general and your husband's body in particular. Take time to

explore, not just his genitalia, but other places on his

body. Figure out where he likes to be touched and kissed. Learn his sensitive spots and his

erogenous zones. Test out how your hands and mouth can arouse and delight your husband.

Get comfortable with his body and learn to appreciate

God's handiwork in the man you married. That's it for today's sex chat quickie.