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Lauren Hough: Leaving Isn't the Hardest Thing

Best of the Spectator

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4.4785 Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In this week’s Book Club podcast Sam's guest is Lauren Hough - author of an outstanding new collection of autobiographical essays called Leaving Isn’t The Hardest Thing which describe a life that took her from growing up in the Children Of God cult via being discharged from the US Air Force and jobs as a bouncer in a gay bar and a “cable guy” on the road to being a writer. She talks about not writing a misery memoir, what elites don’t know about working class life, “lesbian drama”, and the benefits of revising your work on magic mushrooms.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to Spectators Book Club podcast.

0:12.2

I'm Sam Leith, the literary editor of The Spectator, and this week my guest is Lauren Huff,

0:17.9

the author of a new collection of essays called Leaving Isn't the Hardest Thing.

0:23.7

Lauren, welcome.

0:25.5

Thank you so much.

0:26.7

These are very personal essays.

0:28.2

It's kind of a memoir in fragments.

0:31.8

What made you do it that way?

0:33.6

What made you kind of produce it as essays?

0:38.9

It just seemed like that my editor actually talked me into it. I sent out a proposal for a straight memoir.

0:47.4

And when we talked, it sounded like more fun. I could play around at the time or more. I could

0:53.9

gather anecdotes and stories to say what I wanted to say.

1:01.0

And it just gave me a lot more freedom.

1:04.0

And it's kind of... Well, there's so much in it that's sort of hair-raising.

1:09.0

And you've read the most extraordinary life. It begins with your car being set on fire.

1:15.8

Can you tell us how that...

1:17.6

How did we get to there?

1:20.5

How did we get to there?

1:22.1

I was serving the Air Force under Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

1:25.0

And one of the many problems with that law in the military

1:32.1

was that if you were being threatened, if you were being harassed, you couldn't say anything

1:37.8

because that would mean, you know, the question to why you were being harassed would be the answer you couldn't give

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