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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Lack of Self (2019 Rerun)

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2025

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Dr. Kirk Honda talks about lack of self.

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March 8, 2019

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0:00.0

So Kirk, yeah.

0:08.4

Today we've actually already done a podcast and we started one place and we ended up somewhere else.

0:13.2

So we're here talking it over again and sort of figuring out how to introduce this episode to the listeners.

0:17.9

Right.

0:18.1

We did an introduction.

0:20.6

We did the whole episode, but then we went

0:22.1

down some very interesting roads that are completely different from the original intro. So now we're

0:27.3

doing another intro. Yeah. We originally were going to talk about mental status exam and affect.

0:31.9

But somehow we ended up talking about your personality, my personality, sense of self.

0:38.6

You went into some extremely personal areas for yourself.

0:43.0

I think I did too, but I feel like you did more than me.

0:46.8

We talked about the concept of self, the development of self, living your purpose, existential

0:52.8

things.

0:53.3

Yeah, we did a lot of existential

0:54.5

stuff. And really specific in a way that I've never, I don't think I've really had a conversation

0:59.9

like that before about how does one develop self? What does it feel like to have less of a self,

1:07.4

less of a purpose? And the real experience of what it's like to search for that and

1:15.7

try to find it and why emerging self would be tamped down by fears of rejection and at hurting

1:26.9

other people and based on experience and how that interplay

1:30.6

of self and just trying to survive.

1:36.4

You gave a phrase that, you know, the utility of...

1:39.9

I'm not sure I exist outside my own utility.

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