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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Hot Craps, Oral Fixation, and Erotic Transference

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2025

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Fan gifts & Bob's bathroom update
11:49 Why are oral fixations so common? 
23:04 Is it common to experience erotic transference from a client?
39:34 What does success look like with erotic transference? 
51:14 How do we know that care is authentic?

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April 28, 2025

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

So, Bob, I have a gift from a fan.

0:03.2

Oops, to you.

0:04.5

Oh.

0:04.8

So here you go.

0:05.9

Thank you.

0:06.5

Someone made this for you.

0:08.6

Layla from Canada.

0:10.0

Thank you.

0:10.8

Layla, this is amazing.

0:12.6

She is a patron and a YouTube member, and she says,

0:16.2

Bob, your gift was the hardest to pick.

0:19.5

I was thinking about all the things you love to do in your life being a therapist being a writer playing with your tools in the garage someone's been listening to the podcast I really wasn't sure what could connect them all in the end I happened to listen to an old episode where Kirk was interviewing

0:38.5

you about your favorite things, and you mentioned your favorite flower is tulips. So random,

0:44.8

but I ended up choosing tulip-shaped pen holders, and they could also hold small screws,

0:51.8

bolts, and nuts. Thank you.

0:54.7

Oh, this is so cool.

0:56.5

Thanks very much.

0:57.8

Yeah.

0:58.0

Wow, it's amazing.

0:59.3

Yeah, Leila made, I guess they're 3D printed, I'm thinking.

1:04.1

Yeah, it looks like it.

1:04.9

Gifts for everyone.

...

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