Kimber & The Belittling Physical Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 2 September 2024

⏱️ 74 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Kimber shares her story of marrying an emotionally & physically abusive narcissist. When Kimber met her husband, they were both young and looking to make something of themselves. However, soon after they married, red flags began popping up everywhere. Kimber took her vows seriously and believed the lies of her husband when he said his rages and addictions would never happen again. But those were only words, and something worse was lurking beneath as Kimber had to endure years and years of emotional and physical abuse until she was finally able to break free. It's a story of belittling, rage, infidelity, intimidation, smashing property, gambling, isolation, control , guilt, double standards, verbal abuse, not being good enough, blame, financial abuse, gaslighting, Jekyl &Hyde, walking on eggshells, suicide attempts, physical abuse, stalking, divorce, protection orders, physical symptoms, and boundaries. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses suicide attempts and physical abuse. *** To buy Kimber's book, click here - and to get her divorce checklist, click here. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	Ready to launch your business? Get started with the commerce platform made for entrepreneurs.
0:04.8	Shopify is specially designed to help you start, run and grow your business with easy customizable themes that let you build your brand.
0:12.5	Marketing tools that get your products out there. Integrated shipping solutions that actually save you time.
0:17.5	From startups to scaleups, online, in person and on the go shopify is made for entrepreneurs
0:23.3	like you sign up for your one dollar a month trial at shopify dot com slash set up on this episode of
0:32.7	narcissist apocalypse we talk with an abuse survivor named kim, and Kimber was married to a belittling
0:40.2	physical abuser.
0:42.0	It's a story of rage, walking on eggshells, guilt, never being good enough, and stalking.
0:49.9	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:13.2	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me we have Kimber.
1:18.5	How are you?
1:20.1	I'm great. Thanks for having me.
1:22.9	Well, thank you for being here.
1:25.1	And if you want to be a guest like Kimber is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click the guest form button at the top of the page. There you can read all of our instructions and please read them all and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button, and please do send it in the
1:45.4	format that we ask for. And there is a content warning for today's survivor story as we do
1:51.4	graphically discuss physical abuse and a suicide attempt. So that is your content warning for today.
1:58.3	And today you're going to hear Kimber's story and Kimber was married to someone
2:03.0	who had their ego grow as their career grew and she dealt with tremendous amounts of
2:09.9	physical and emotional abuse throughout the relationship. And that didn't stop because even in
2:14.6	divorce, the abuser went scorched earth and had a winning at all costs
2:20.3	vindictiveness about them. So a big thank you to Kimber for being here with us today. And now I'm
2:26.0	going to get out of my way and your way. Kimber, the floor is now yours.
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Abuse Survivor Network, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Abuse Survivor Network and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.