Keep The Important Important #771
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 March 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly TikTok.
We discuss the implications of popular sayings like 'Happy wife equals happy life' and 'Never go to bed angry,' highlighting how these phrases can lead to unhealthy dynamics in relationships. The conversation dives into the complexities of compromise, the myth of soulmates, the importance of effective communication, and the necessity of setting boundaries.
Ultimately, we emphasize that while rituals like date nights can be beneficial, they are not a substitute for the deeper work required to maintain a healthy marriage.
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| 0:00.0 | Right before we were starting to record, we regularly go walking. |
| 0:07.2 | We have a lab that requires at least twice a day. |
| 0:11.0 | A labrador. |
| 0:12.0 | A labrador. |
| 0:13.0 | Yes, a black lab. |
| 0:15.0 | And as Uncle Stoney on YouTube says, every dog wants to be a lab and every lab wants to be a black lab. |
| 0:21.5 | And so Pico is it. |
| 0:23.5 | Yeah, that's what we got. |
| 0:24.8 | But as we were walking along, we got to talk about just kind of the state of life |
| 0:30.4 | and everything, which meant like right away, let's do a show. |
| 0:35.6 | So this is a little more impromptu of a show that we're going to do. |
| 0:40.5 | But it's going to be based on what you were describing with how we can get our priorities |
| 0:46.8 | out of line on, particularly us that are believers. If you are a God follower and an apprentice of Jesus, then a lot of times |
| 0:59.5 | it's really easy to have other things get in the way and we lose track of what's important. |
| 1:04.7 | And then we wonder, why is life a little chaotic or anxiety prone or no margin or whatever it can happen, right? |
| 1:14.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:14.6 | And so there's also importance of realizing we do this in marriage too because how we handle |
| 1:22.1 | ourselves is what will help determine what happens with our marriage, which is one of the |
| 1:26.6 | truisms, I believe. |
| 1:28.3 | I had a chance to speak this past weekend, and I opened with a statement of, I'm going to |
| 1:34.8 | break it to you, I'm going to shoot straight with you, that your spouse is not the biggest |
| 1:39.1 | problem in your marriage. |
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