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I am breaking the do not enter police line, do not cross, dating seal.

The bee is back.

Now, I'm not coming in with a vengeance because dating can feel like a buffet where if you don't make good choices,

you indulge on a bunch of crap that makes you feel sick and you don't even know

what you ate. So I have taken what's almost eight months to not date, to be celibate, to be selective,

to reflect, to do the therapy, to do the work, to be alone, to use my solitude, to think about

what I really want, to not settle, to not do the, just go.

It might be fun.

To not go out with the younger washboard ab Italian guy because I'm bored.

And that would make me feel sick anyway.

That's like junk food.

And I don't want someone in my house that I don't like.

I don't want to be at someone else's house.

Like, I want to be selective. I'm my picky. You better fucking believe it. Why? Because I know I do have a lot of

opportunity. I do happen to have several suitors. I have a good personality. I'm fun. I'm smart.

I don't need someone's money. I'm not a gold digger, but I don't want someone

who can't afford me. So I've been super selective. And what has that process taught me of being

bored and alone and sort of not just like going out just to have a drink with someone just because,

just in case? Like none of that. What it's done is it's

been like buying a house where when you buy a house, you choose what you want. You say ahead of time,

okay, you're going in, you have a price range and you say, I want a house or I want a condo or

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