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Another thing about work, work, partnerships, lawyers, agents, real estate agents, contractors, designers, construction, admit what you don't know.

I run into so many business problems because people are so either insecure or paranoid or think they're going to get fired or in fear and have to prove that they know everything, that they act like they know everything. Like you're doing a deal and they just have answers for everything. You're doing this and they have answers for everything. You're traveling somewhere. They have to act like they know everything. You're designing something. Nobody knows everything and don't ever assume anyone's smarter than you.

And I like to be surrounded by people, whether it's the president of my company, an agent, a representative, a doctor that will say what they don't know. Of course, they should know many things,

but they will say what they don't know, a lawyer. Like, listen, I haven't seen this before.

We will figure it out together. I don't exactly understand this. What do you think or let's all crowdsource? And I'll be then we can have a workshop and talk about it because most times I'll be like, all, listen, I'm going to call three people. And it could literally be. I'm calling Mark Cuban. I'm calling this big powerhouse. I'm calling Steve Cohen. I'm calling, you know, some of my powerhouse women that I know,

and I'm going to ask, and I'm going to crowd source, and I'll get back to you, and we're going to figure it out, or I'm going to call this lawyer, or I'm going to call this class action lawyer, or I'm going to call this one, I'm going to call this intellectual property. I'll fucking figure it out. If you don't know, you better act somebody, okay? Do not act like you know everything.

It's immature. It's insecure. And it's for losers. And as we get into dating sometimes, this guy was, this guy on social who gives dating advice, he basically texted someone back immediately and said, like, I'm not going to play games and I'm going to text you back right away because of blah, blah, blah. And I put in his comments, I was like, dude, you don't need to say all that. You need to be all that. Like, if someone texts you in a weird way and they are not responsive or they seem like it could take like 24 hours, like I had a guy that had his cadences to text and then like you won't hear from him again. You'll respond. You may not hear from him for 24 hours.

Could be eight hours.

Could be the next day.

And they're like, oh, hey, sorry.

Was that my kids? Whatever. It's like, really? You don't have fingers? You're a successful person. I know how successful you are because it wouldn't be fucking going out with you if you weren't successful. but you don't have fingers in a telephone.

Like, you're a fucking loser.

So I don't care.

I dismiss those people because they're fucking losers.

And I... but you don't have fingers in a telephone. Like, you're a fucking loser. So I don't care.

I dismiss those people because they're fucking losers. And I text back right away because I'm a grown-ass woman who texts back right away. I'm not going to go. If you go jump off a bridge, I'm not jumping off. If you go act like a moron, I'm not acting like a moron. I text right away because I'm secure and I'm a grown-ass woman.

And obviously we'll get to where we need to get to,

meaning Vitex right away because I'm secure and I'm a grown-ass woman. And obviously we'll get to where we need to get to, meaning if I text right away and you go every time four days, you're never going to hear from me again anyway. And I'm like, yeah, anybody got time for this. And again, this is because this person is used to dealing with 35-year-olds. We've talked about that before. So here's what goes on with the 35-year-old or the young women. And here's what goes on why women need to work for their own money. Why you need to have financial independence. I don't give a shit about any of you that are going to be like, it's a valuable job to be a stay-at-home mom because it is. I know that. I agree with that. It's not just a line.

It is harder to be a mom and manage multiple children than it is to work and be an entrepreneur.

I know all of that. All of this is true. It is gnarly. It is hardcore. It is a dance. It is organizational

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