So I got married, I got married last week. We got married, Aisha and I. It is when June 21, 2024. That's when we got married right on Summer Solstice. Love it. It's been a year since I

mentioned that so I wanted to bring that up the very first thing to talk about and

we had some wonderful pictures taken we had some wonderful times during the day it was a very very low-key wedding and if you want to check it out you can look up my profile on

Facebook Paul Koliani and you'll find pictures of us. I'm wearing a 20s

era pinstrip suit and she's wearing a very customized dress that she had done and it looked amazing and I think we looked great. She said those are her favorite pictures of us and we are now married after 10 years of being together.

And some people might ask why so long.

And I have a great answer.

We both have a great answer because we were married before and we didn't necessarily believe that we needed to get married again.

We thought we were committed to each other.

But then a few years ago, she said, you know, I've thought about getting married again.

And I said, what? Okay. And I hadn't thought about it, honestly. I just thought this is our life together and this is how it will be. But she thought about it. And so we talked about it and I said sure you let's

consider that but let me ask you I don't want you to ask me I want me to ask you

which thinking back was unfair I think both people have a right to ask, but I really wanted to ask, and I wanted to make it special.

So I told that story, you know, how I asked her to marry me when my mom was there and my sister was

there is at a Chinese restaurant again low key I probably not do it at a Chinese

restaurant again but I did and it was neat. It was really special to me and I think she

enjoyed it too because it was a surprise. But yes, 10 years. What took so long and do you care? Do you know me well enough to care?

So I waited a while after we talked about. I waited a while to ask her because she was having issues with her teeth.

She had got hit in the mouth of the baseball like a couple decades ago and she had surgery

after surgery after surgery and she always had like a

flipper a fake tooth and sometimes she didn't wear it and then there were a couple

of years where she couldn't wear it and it went on and on and she had a lot of trauma around that and so when she was finally

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