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When I look back at that, like I reacted really negatively to that because I was like, you could have just told me this as opposed to making me feel like I'm a complete idiot and no one ever does this, right? Like, sorry, actually,

lots of people do this. Like, lots of people make this mistake. And I think it's when we add in

this sort of, how does this reflect on your reputation and who you are, as opposed to what's,

like if we just describe what happened like you did with kai right and say you know

that's probably not the best way to handle it okay dad that makes sense that's a lot different than kai

you're a bad boy like you did this badly you should be ashamed of yourself whatever right but i think

that we've in some of those things because we think that they're

actually going to be helpful in really learning the lesson. And I can tell you my own experience

was that they were the opposite of helpful. They made me not want to learn or even want to engage

in what I did wrong. So we have to separate that out and say, this happens. You should learn from it,

but it doesn't mean you're a bad human being. It means you made a mistake and you got to cope with

it. Had their struggles. And when failure happens, you say, okay, like I've been to this movie

before. It's not that bad. I always say to my kids, which they hate, but they're

coming around to now, keep it in perspective. Because as you said, if we're not dead, if we're not

whatever, right? Then we're still here and we can do something else, something better, and we learn from it.

And I think they're getting the point, right, slowly but surely, that life throws you difficult things.

And when you're 15 and you have a bad day at school, you think it's the worst day ever.

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