John Kim and Vanessa Bennett on How to Find Love That Lasts EP 230

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🗓️ 20 December 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Today on Passion Struck, I interview family therapists John Kim and Vanessa Bennett, who reveal the honest truth about why it’s so hard to find love and the keys to creating a lasting relationship. We discuss their new book: It’s Not Me, It’s You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.

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0:00.0	coming up next on the passion struck podcast. So many people come to us as clients and they're like 40s
0:06.0	usually and it's like I'm unhappy. I don't know why I've checked all the boxes. I've done all the
0:09.9	things, quote unquote, right. Why am I miserable and so often it's because I've done everything I
0:14.5	should do. Yeah. And also I want to say that what you went through doesn't stop because when we
0:20.4	get into a relationship, it shouldn't stop. We're always growing evolving and exploring self. We change
0:26.3	your partner changes, the relationship changes. So it's not like you do all this work when you're
0:31.6	single and then you meet someone and then you just the work stops. Yeah, and all the stops. A lot of
0:35.2	people do that. I think that's where they drop the ball. Welcome to passion struck. Hi, I'm your host
0:39.9	John Armeils and on the show we decipher the secrets, tips and guidance of the world's most
0:45.8	inspiring people and turn their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around you. Our mission
0:52.5	is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself.
0:59.1	If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. We have long
1:04.8	form interviews the rest of the week with guest ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs,
1:11.2	creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, visionaries and athletes. Now let's go out there
1:18.2	and become passion struck. Hello everyone and welcome back to episode 230 of passion struck.
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