7 Ways to Stop Playing the Victim to Your Circumstances w/ John R. Miles EP 229

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

John R. Miles

Mental Health, Alternative Health, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 779 Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2022

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Too often, we allow our psyche to control our lives. We become prisoners of our own minds and victims of our own circumstances. In this episode, John shares an important message about six ways to recognize we are playing the victim and seven steps to overcome our victim mentality and live intentionally. What I Discuss About Playing the Victim By nature, nobody is a victim. Playing the victim is not a psychological feature but rather a learned behavior. Most of the time, those with victim mentalities go through trauma or difficult situations without developing better-coping skills. In fact, this is referred described by psychologists as "learned helplessness," a condition in which people who have experienced terrible events feel helpless to get out of their predicament. Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://passionstruck.com/7-ways-to-stop-playing-the-victim/ Brought to you by POM Wonderful, MasterClass, and Omaha Steaks. --► For information about advertisers and promo codes, go to: https://passionstruck.com/deals/ --► Prefer to watch this interview: https://youtu.be/8Ol9ZcS-CY4 Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter or Instagram handle so we can thank you personally! --► Subscribe to Our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/JohnRMiles Want to find your purpose in life? I provide my six simple steps to achieving it - passionstruck.com/5-simple-steps-to-find-your-passion-in-life/Did you hear my interview with Robin Sharma, one of the top personal mastery and leadership coaches in the world and a multiple-time number-one New York Times best-selling author? Catch up with episode 209: Robin Sharma on Why Changing the World Starts by Changing Ourselves ===== FOLLOW ON THE SOCIALS ===== * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/passion_struck_podcast * Gear: https://www.zazzle.com/store/passion_sruck_podcast Learn more about John: https://johnrmiles.com/

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0:00.0	Coming up next on the Passion Struck Podcast, you can choose to continue blaming someone else for something that they did to you in the past.
0:07.2	But it's not going to make anything different.
0:09.0	You must first forgive whatever contributed to your victim's mindset before you can release yourself from it,
0:15.4	whether that be a romantic connection, an actual unforeseen circumstance, or even your own deeds.
0:21.5	By letting go of the past, you will be able to concentrate on the present and future and be motivated to take the required steps.
0:28.6	To create your ideal life.
0:30.1	Welcome to Passion Struck.
0:31.5	Hi, I'm your host, John Armiles, and on the show, we decipher the secrets, tips, and guidance of the world's most inspiring people,
0:39.6	and turn their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around you.
0:44.3	Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself.
0:51.8	If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays.
0:56.9	We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guest-ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders,
1:07.5	visionaries, and athletes.
1:09.3	Now, let's go out there and become Passion Struck.
1:12.7	Hello, everyone, and welcome back to Momentum Friday, an episode 229 of Passion Struck,
1:18.2	which was recently ranked this week by Interview Valet, is one of the 20 best podcasts for business and mindset.
1:25.1	And thank you to each and every one of you, ComeSack Weekly, listen and learn, at a lift better, be better, and impact the world.
1:30.9	If you're new to the show, thank you so much for being here, or you would just like to introduce this to a friend or family member,
1:36.8	and we so appreciate it when you do that.
1:38.8	You now have episode starter packs, both on Spotify, as well as the Passion Struck website,
1:43.3	and these are collections of our fans' favorite episodes that we organize into convenient topics to give any new listener.
1:49.0	A great way to get acquainted to everything we do here on the show is to go to PassionStruck.com, as last starter packs, to get started.
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