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This is top flight time. I'm Shane. I'm Andy Hopper. You lost and pop up out.

I'm 70 Delaney. So what? Here we are again. This is the Monday morning episode.

You'll get it Sunday evening if you are IFS subscriber. And why wouldn't you be before? I mean,

you've been a civil. Let's be honest. Let's not fuck about here. You've been

not flying lying about it. You've talked about before you went and I assume you went and

they clearly have went. You've been posted photographs of it and also before we get to that,

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