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The Virtual Couch

Jessica Frew On Living a BOLD Life - Co-host of the Husband in Law Podcast

The Virtual Couch

Tony Overbay LMFT

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9 • 668 Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2021

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Jessica Frew truly lives a BOLD life. She is an author (https://theboldlogic.com/free-book), podcast host of the very real, raw, and funny podcast Husband in Law that she hosts with her current husband Matt, as well as her ex-husband Steve. From Jessica, "we were active members of the LDS/Mormon faith, and just a few months into our marriage, my husband (Steve) came to terms with the fact that he is gay." Jessica tells her story that is anything but what one expects when they get married but those experiences have truly made her who she is today, and along her path, she has discovered some very profound ways to help others take control of their own life, find joy, and silence the noise that so often gets in the way of helping us navigate the realities that life doesn't always turn out the way we expect. You can find the Husband in Law podcast here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/husband-in-law/id1464470280 or wherever you listen to podcasts. You can follow the Husband in Law podcast on Instagram here https://www.instagram.com/husband_in_law/

You can watch this interview on YouTube here https://youtu.be/k1pPHfe3wd4 Please subscribe to The Virtual Couch YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/c/TheVirtualCouchPodcast/ and follow The Virtual Couch on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/virtualcouch/ This episode of The Virtual Couch is sponsored by http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch With the continuing “sheltering” rules that are spreading across the country PLEASE do not think that you can’t continue or begin therapy now. http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch can put you quickly in touch with licensed mental health professionals who can meet through text, email, or videoconference often as soon as 24-48 hours. And if you use the link http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch you will receive 10% off your first month of services. Please make your own mental health a priority, http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch offers affordable counseling, and they even have sliding scale options if your budget is tight.

Tony's FREE parenting course, “Tips For Parenting Positively Even In the Not So Positive Times” is available NOW. Just go to https://www.tonyoverbay.com/courses-2/ and sign up today. This course will help you understand why it can be so difficult to communicate with and understand your children. You’ll learn how to keep your buttons hidden, how to genuinely give praise that will truly build inner wealth in your child, teen, or even in your adult children, and you’ll learn how to move from being “the punisher” to being someone your children will want to go to when they need help.Tony's new best-selling book "He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions" is now available on Kindle. https://amzn.to/38mauBoTony Overbay, is the co-author of "He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions" now available on Amazon https://amzn.to/33fk0U4. The book debuted in the number 1 spot in the Sexual Health Recovery category and remains there as the time of this record. The book has received numerous positive reviews from professionals in the mental health and recovery fields.You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program The Path Back by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs, and podcasts.Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript click here https://descript.com?lmref=v95myQ

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0:00.0

Hey, everybody. Welcome to episode 249 of the virtual couch. This is a special bonus episode. I am still

0:06.1

your host, Tony Overbay, a licensed marriage and family therapist. And I'm going to do things a little

0:10.1

bit differently today for today's episode. Thus why I'm calling it a bonus episode. Before I get started,

0:16.6

I would still love it if you head over to Tonyoveroverbay.com, check out my free parenting program,

0:21.0

my pornography recovery program, the Magnetic Marriage course, which is incredible. We're three

0:25.8

weeks into the first round, which sold out in just a few hours, which still blows my mind.

0:30.6

The next one's coming soon. And if you specifically go to tonyoverbay.com slash magnetic,

0:36.2

then you can get on a wait list and find out when the next

0:38.5

round will be launching. But I have a guest on today, and her name is Jessica Fru. She is

0:45.0

fun. She's dynamic. She's full of energy. And she's been through a lot. She has an incredible

0:49.9

story. She's done a lot of hard things. And I mentioned in our interview that every once in a while,

0:55.9

I go into a movie, follow me here, with absolutely no idea of what the movie is about. And I just,

1:02.3

I love that experience because I feel like I'm on this new journey the entire time. There's no,

1:07.4

no predisposition, no confirmation bias. Nothing is tainting my view of this movie.

1:13.0

And my wife doesn't like it at all, by the way. She wants to know something or anything about a

1:16.9

movie, always. What do you know? And too often I can't help myself and I may not know anything

1:21.8

about a movie, but then I will sneak a quick peek on my phone, maybe of rotten tomatoes.com, look up a review. And I will tell you,

1:30.8

I feel like, I'm not an all or nothing guy, but every time I do this, I will see some low tomato

1:35.6

meter score or audience score, and I will just be so bummed. Because once I check, now, I've got

1:41.4

this review as colored my experience of the entire, entire movie.

1:45.7

And so I would love to just challenge you today, just for fun.

1:49.2

I would love it just to say, if you are not familiar with Jessica Fru, then do not dare Google

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