Jane & The Future Faking Financial Abuser | Coercive Control & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2024

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Jane shares the story of her 16-year abusive marriage. What started as a few red flags eventually turned into full-blown abuse once Jane got pregnant with their first child. Jane's ex began by putting down her appearance, which turned into criticism of her competence. And to top it all off, he took away her financial freedom with some extra help from his own toxic family along the way. It's a story of future faking, coercive control, boundary pushing, financial abuse, put downs, autonomy, competence, isolation, enmeshment, smear campaigns, being good enough, gaining strength, support, rage, toxic families, fear, entitlement, vindictiveness, intergenerational trauma, custody, and court. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Jane, and Jane was married to a future faking financial abuser.
0:11.1	It's a story of put-downs, isolation, infidelity, smear campaigns, and gaining strength.
0:37.1	Music campaigns and gaining strength. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:42.0	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Jane.
0:47.3	How are you?
0:48.7	Hi, I'm doing well, Brandon.
0:51.0	How are you?
0:52.1	I am doing well.
0:54.0	Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest
0:57.4	like Jane is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click the guest form at the
1:04.3	top of the page. There, you can read all of our instructions and please read them all. And either send
1:08.9	us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out the guest
1:12.8	form and press the submit button.
1:14.6	And please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:17.7	And today you're going to hear Jane's story.
1:20.3	And Jane was a fully independent, autonomous person before her 16-year marriage where
1:27.0	everything about her was taken away, including her
1:31.5	financial stability. And this story is also about how the abuser's family played a role in the
1:37.4	abuse as well. So a big thank you to Jane for being here. And now I'm going to get out of my way
1:42.7	and your way. Jane, the floor is now yours.
1:48.8	Thank you for having me on to share my story. I'll just kind of jump in by giving you a little bit
1:56.0	of background. Like when I was growing up, I was one of four daughters in a family with a very traditional
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