ITL231: How to Actually Get Your Teenager to Talk to You
In the Loop with Andy Andrews
Matt Lempert
4.9 • 614 Ratings
🗓️ 2 April 2016
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
On this week’s episode, I’m talking about the importance of having a child start their own business and how it opens them up to communication as a teenager.
I had a conversation the other day with Joe Bullard and his son Ty who run an auto dealership “empire.”
- Joe took over his dad’s Oldsmobile dealership, and now Ty has recently taken the reins.
- I asked Ty what the smartest thing his dad ever did was, and he said it was taking a step back from City Council and other things so that he could spend time with his son.
- It occurred to Joe as he looked long-term that the best thing he could do to continue to expand the business for generations was to invest time in the person who would likely take it over.
I have had a lot of parents of teenagers say, “My teen won’t talk to me,” and the typical response is, “Well, that’s just a teenager.”
- One of the huge benefits of prompting Austin to have his own business was we put him in a position that he had to talk to us.
- Since age 12, he knew we weren’t buying him a car, so when he asked “How do I get the money?” I told him there are three ways:
- You can save the $5 and $10 you get for your birthday and in a couple years you’ll have around $400 and you can buy a $400 car.
- You can get a job at age 14 and work minimum wage for 2 years.
- You can start your own business by figuring out how to create value for other people, and the more obvious the value, the more business you will have.
Tune in to hear why this approach will make you your child’s go-to person for advice, and why this is the best time for them to struggle.
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to In the Loop, a unique opportunity to see life from a different perspective |
| 0:06.5 | with New York Times bestselling author, Andy Andrews. Now here's your host, David Loy. |
| 0:13.4 | Hi and welcome to In The Loop with Andy Andrews. I am thrilled to be your host, David Loy. |
| 0:19.5 | I was thinking this morning that the intro is always the exact same. And so I was trying to figure out host, David Loy. I was thinking this morning that I, the intro is always the |
| 0:22.6 | exact same. And so I was trying to figure out a way to change it up, spice it up, do something. |
| 0:26.6 | I know it. I just got through listening to the audio book, I'm Andy Andrews, by the way. |
| 0:30.5 | I got through listening to the audio book of Stan Lee. Oh yeah. It's called Marvelous, |
| 0:36.5 | incredible, something like that, you know. |
| 0:38.8 | And it's an awesome audiobook. |
| 0:40.8 | And we could take a cue from that audiobook for your, you know, because he's the guy |
| 0:46.0 | who invented Spider-Man, the Hulk, all this stuff, you know. |
| 0:49.7 | We could take a cue from his audiobook as to how you could be introduced on In the Loop. |
| 0:58.1 | You know, Dun, Dun, Dun, Dun, Da, you know, In the Loop, Here's David Lloyd. |
| 1:04.4 | I need my own hook. |
| 1:05.4 | Yeah, that's what it is. |
| 1:06.4 | That's really good. |
| 1:07.0 | That guy has done so many things. |
| 1:09.7 | And isn't he the one that always makes a cameo |
| 1:12.6 | a cameo in all of the movies. Yeah. That's pretty cool. Yeah. He talks about that in there too, |
| 1:18.5 | but it's funny because in the audio book, he'll do several of the cameos. He'll say, |
| 1:24.4 | he said, I'd like to recite my lines from Iron Man too, and he'll go, what? I'm sorry. |
| 1:30.6 | And then that's it, you know, the whole thing. That's really good. And you, we talked about this |
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