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In the Loop with Andy Andrews

ITL143: The Rarely Asked, But Often Pondered Question: What's the Correct Handshake Etiquette for Girls?

In the Loop with Andy Andrews

Matt Lempert

Business

4.9614 Ratings

🗓️ 26 July 2014

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

On this week’s episode, I respond to a listener question about handshake etiquette for girls.

I don’t think there is a “right” or “wrong,” but I do think there is a “best.”

There are a couple of schools of thought here:

  • One is the old-school “debutant” school of thought:
  • Women go to college to find a husband.
  • Everything a woman does should be geared toward a wife and homemaker.
  • I don’t know if there is anything more important than that, but there are definitely other things that may be equally important.

With the way our world works today, I don’t think a woman shaking hands should offend anyone.

  • For the most part, professional women shake hands.
  • What looks really strange, though, is when a woman doesn’t know what to do.

I’ve taught my boys that there are many people who will not expect a handshake from them because of their age.

  • I see many surprised (and delighted) faces when by boys reach their hands out and say, “nice to meet you” to adults.
  • To a huge degree, how you treat your wife or husband will create a baseline for your children’s expectations as they grow up.

I’ve elaborated on this topic in a free 4-video series I did on smart parenting. I’d love for you to get to watch it!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to In the Loop, a unique opportunity to see life from a different perspective

0:06.5

with New York Times bestselling author, Andy Andrews. Now here's your host, David Loy.

0:13.1

Hi and welcome to In the Loop with Andy Andrews. I'm your host, David Loy, and with me again once,

0:19.5

why do I mess that up? We're not even going to edit this,

0:23.1

Andy. I'll just say that shows how authentic we are. I'm not going to I'm not going to pretend like

0:28.7

we're doing, I'm reading some script here because I'm not. But with me once again, I just know

0:35.0

that I am embarrassed for you. Thank you very much.

0:38.2

Yes, yes, yes, yes.

0:39.9

Andy, Andrews, how are you?

0:41.8

I'm doing great, baby.

0:43.5

How are you?

0:44.5

Well, I'm struggling.

0:46.3

Apparently, I'm struggling.

0:48.0

I'm struggling through this introduction.

0:50.2

That's funny.

0:52.0

We are, if nothing, we are authentic here for sure.

0:55.4

Oh, yeah, baby.

0:56.5

We're authentic.

0:58.2

We've got a question today, right?

1:01.4

We do, actually.

1:02.8

I love the questions.

1:03.9

I love the questions.

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