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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

It Works! Parents Report Powerful Benefits From Allowing Kids' Feelings

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2023

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Allowing our children to vent their feelings, encouraging and even welcoming them however they are expressed (and not taking it personally!), it is not easy at first. It is a practice that requires taking our head and then our heart into a place where we can calm ourselves enough to genuinely listen, and accept with compassion rather than judgment. In this episode, Janet shares several notes from parents who describe how making the effort to practice this perspective has paid off in major breakthroughs in their relationships with their children. One parent writes: “I have tears in my eyes as I write this because I just didn’t know that this type of connection with anyone, let alone the most important person in my world, was even possible.”

Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse.com and JanetLansbury.com.

Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, before we begin, I just want to remind you to please check out my new

0:07.6

No Bad Kids Master course.

0:09.6

You can find out all about it at nobadkidscourse.com.

0:14.3

Hi, this is Janet Lansfury.

0:19.4

Welcome to Unruffled.

0:21.3

So recently I shared a podcast that I called What to Do and Not to Do when kids have

0:29.1

meltdowns, tantrums, strong emotions.

0:32.7

It seemed to resonate with a lot of people, it was popular, and it got me thinking that

0:38.0

while I talk a lot about this topic of letting feelings be how to do it, I don't talk as

0:45.5

much about all the benefits, how this practice, and it is a practice, this is counterintuitive

0:52.4

for most of us to encourage our children to feel whatever they feel when it's an uncomfortable,

0:58.5

unpleasant feeling, even just attempting this practice, it's challenging, right?

1:05.7

So I hope that this episode gives you even more encouragement, and also gives you more

1:12.1

examples of what it looks like, what it feels like, and I'm sharing this in my most favorite

1:19.6

way, which is through you, through the stories that you're sharing with me, the insights

1:25.5

that you've had about your experiences that you've been so kind to share with me.

1:33.9

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1:39.0

an important element of self-care.

1:41.3

Even everyday activities like a trip to the playground, house cleaning, walking the dog,

1:46.0

long airplane flights, and night on the town, all of these can cause dehydration and keep

1:50.7

us from feeling our best.

1:52.8

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