It's Not You: Navigating a World of Narcissism with Dr. Ramani Durvasula

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🗓️ 14 February 2024

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Dr. Ramani Durvasula shares her expertise on narcissism and its impact on relationships. Dr. Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting.

During our conversation, Dr. Durvasula provides a detailed overview of narcissism, explaining how it manifests in relationships and the harm it can cause. She emphasizes the importance of understanding narcissistic behavior and the need to educate ourselves on how to navigate these challenging dynamics.

Some highlights we explore:

The role of social media in contributing to the rise of narcissism
The impact of narcissistic relationships on mental health and well-being
Strategies for setting boundaries and protecting oneself from narcissistic behavior
The power of self-reflection and personal growth in healing from narcissistic relationships

Join me as Dr. Ramani Durvasula sheds light on the complex world of narcissism and provides valuable insights for navigating these challenging relationships.

Enjoy!

Transcript

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0:00.0	It should be taught to everybody. It should be taught to anyone in any field. I don't care if you're going
0:05.0	into business, into law, into medicine, into hell. Airplane mechanic, hairdresser, I don't care what the
0:12.5	hell you're going to do. You need to understand this because these are going to be your clients.
0:16.1	These are going to be your bosses. These are going to be people who can make your professional
0:20.3	life a living hell.
0:21.8	We should be teaching people how to get into healthy relationship.
0:24.4	Because right now, we're in the age of sort of the narcissist bro.
0:28.2	Like, I want to be like him because he's a baller and he's got a yacht.
0:32.5	He got a Lambo.
0:33.8	I don't care if he's dick.
0:35.3	Like he gets the girls.
0:37.0	If that's a trope and that's a viable mentality,
0:41.6	and these people are being rewarded with billions of dollars and tons of societal power.
0:47.6	I always say to people, listen, somebody has a billion dollars.
0:51.3	That's their billion.
0:52.6	Let them go with God.
0:53.8	Just don't marry them.
0:55.3	You know, that, like, if somebody is really successful at what they do, but they're cruel,
1:01.7	admire from a distance, but don't get close to them. You might even want to think twice about
1:06.9	working with them. And so it's that sense of, it's almost like, I don't want to be Napoleon's friend,
1:12.8	even if I could go back in time.
1:14.4	I'm guessing Napoleon wasn't a good guy.
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