It's Not Me, It's You: The Relationship Dance

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2021

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago
0:05.6	and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.
0:10.4	I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose
0:16.2	because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.
0:19.4	Hey I want to tell you about the lab if you haven't heard it is wellness. Anywhere you go you could
0:28.6	listen to it like a podcast they're basically live zoom classes but you could listen to them on a run or you could turn the camera on and engage with them.
0:38.0	We have a thriving community of like-minded people trying to live better lives and it's been amazing. like
0:45.0	like co-minded people trying to live better lives and it's been amazing. Not only do we have the foundational classes like co-dependency and
0:49.0	trauma and relationships and all that, but we also have a lot of fun classes because it's so hard to make
0:56.0	friends as adults right so we have terror card readings we have soul shower we have
0:59.7	astrology readings we're turning wellness into a lifestyle. We're also going to run a retreat soon. So come
1:06.5	and hang out with us, come ride with us, go to the website to get into the lab and then go download the app. We have a brand new app out with tons of audio.
1:18.0	I'm going to give you a discount code and this is for a limited time. So if you're listening to this, you can join the
1:27.3	lab for only $20. It's like a drop-in fee. For three months,'s $20 a month go to TATLab. App that's TatLab.
1:40.7	And the discount code is live better. It's case sensitive so all lower case one word live better and I will see you in the lab
1:54.0	You know how you know you love someone when they do something that could catch the
2:00.2	house on fire, but you think it's cute. Oh God what did I do? You left a bag of
2:07.2	bread in its plastic wrapper, a loaf of bread on top of the toaster and you left, not today, just overall, you leave the cleaning towel,
2:23.8	towel on the burner of the stove.
2:28.0	But if the oven's not, or the toaster's not on,
2:31.3	that's not gonna to do anything.
2:33.2	Okay, I don't want to get into a fight.
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