Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

Okay, tell me why can you guys give me a Pamela and Dana, I can see your faces

closest right now because you guys were just talking. We didn't talk about the earring

story last week, right?

We didn't go into that last week, okay.

So we'll touch on that.

I mean, I feel like the earring story kind of goes

through love languages.

So love languages and attachment styles

might be too big to cover both in one day,

but we'll see how far along we get.

So I wrote this story into the book kind of at the nudging of my best friend

Deney as well as John because it was something that obviously happened in real life right and I didn't realize at the time of it happening

years back how kind of not like big of a deal it was but more just like what an aha moment it really was in our relationship

until kind of really sitting with and thinking about it right so you know look as a therapist and

you almost everybody here I'm sure sure, knows love languages, right?

It's kind of become very common vernacular.

We talk about Gary Chapman's book in the book and how it actually isn't research-based.

He really just pulled this and created this theory

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