Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

I want to start by reading something.

We like you have loved with only our eyes.

We like you exchanged vows for security and a false permanence as a way to control.

And we like you have lost the new love that is compassion and honesty over timelines and promises focusing on

depth instead of with letting go of what was including blueprints and old

folded an old folded increased definitions from our parents

that we still keep in our back pocket. Leaning into something new without strings, new

love that stems from courage not fear, courage to speak truth, and accept

differences, understanding that pain is not a reason to blame, but a part to love, like discoloration on a leaf.

Courage to show shortcomings and weaknesses to sit with and through,

to hold on to yourself before holding on to the other and if the other drops to their

knees not to drop with them but to stay standing offering a hand not a life. The new love is purpose-driven, not ego-driven, greater than its parts. The new love

comes in moments, moments that stand alone and are not defined by years.

The new love redefines beauty as how the other makes you feel,

not just as attraction and your preferred aesthetics.

The new love is about a beautiful person, not

beautiful people and it examines energy, flow, and the spiritual dance. The new love is a

slow burn, not lightning, in a cracked bottle.

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