Oh, uh, okay. A. Ah, uh, A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. discussion and we have been reading reviews. We've been reading feedback on reviews in the Facebook and pretty much like all the

platforms and so we want to address the elephant in the room and that is just our co-parenting journey and relationship right now and not nothing bad it's just things are shifting and I think that that comes with Isaac getting older

and not really knowing how to navigate certain things and so we know that it's come

off a little weird but we're also struggling in real life so without getting into like the nitty gritty details and

exposing all of our co-parenting, um, what's the word I'm looking for?

Our co-parenting issues?

Like, it does make it really hard to kind of go forward with, not, it doesn't make it go, it doesn't

make it hard to go on with the podcast. I think it presents new challenges that we couldn't have prepared for.

Yes, absolutely. So I think

Go ahead, V. Oh no, I'm just I just think um like Hale said we you know we do want to keep certain things

private but we did also want to be open and like you guys are like we're going through it too and

you know, you guys always write into us about your issues and stuff, but like we still are human

beings and we go through it too. You know, like we're always

going to have ups and downs and our co-parenting and our situation and I think that's just the

reality of it. So we just wanted to be open with you guys and but I did also want to bring up because I know people really

complain about like the new structure of the show and the new structure was not done because of this. You know, like the structure was done way before, like this was like a strategy that we wanted to do just to separate the podcast from like all the other podcasts we have, like just to make it more structured because people did want more of a structure from baby mamas.

We were kind of just, I think we were kind of dwindling away from why we started the podcast.

And even though we'd like to talk about personal things and everything we just felt like we wanted to get back to like the core reasoning for the podcast.

So that has nothing to do with why the structure changed or anything like that.

But we do try and keep it to like more co-parentee and like more parenting struggles and things like that if I guess if you will. Yeah I think for people who are

listening and maybe like real like notice that the dynamic has shifted it wasn't

intentional that no structure coincided with some

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