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844305 Andy that's 844305 2639. Hi guys. Happy New Year. How are we all doing? First week back. I'm sure it's all a little even I'm rusty. Hey listen just because I love January doesn't mean that I don't feel like I don't remember how to do my job this week.

Even just now I was like what is my show called where where am I even though I did it over break we're all a little rusty we've been hibernating we've been wearing sweatpants we've been eating crazy amounts of turkey and gravy and other weird holiday foods so just go gentle go easy on yourself this week seriously.

Hey I'm always in awe of moms like I genuinely don't know how that you guys do it but I looked at my boyfriend last night and I was like I don't know how people with kids ever have time or the energy to have sex and the reason that I said this is because so I have two cats now two cats right not two dogs not two children two cats and we were trying to have sex last night.

And my cats like they will not leave us alone like they will not they need to be around I've raised a very very codependent cat and they're like screaming and like if we shut the door because I think it's weird to have sex in front of your pets although sometimes it does happen.

They're like crying they want to be on the bed with us like obviously not while we're shagging but like you know what I mean and when we shut the door they're meowing so loudly like they sound like they're in distress which of course they're not they're just clingy and I was like God how do people with kids like what do you do you have to wait till they go to bed and then be quiet and then by that time you're exhausted I'm fascinated by that I'm really fascinated and I take my hat off to all the moms out there who are still.

Having time and energy to bone their partners because it's Jesus Jesus Louise and after that over share I think we should just slide right into our first caller let's talk to me.

Hi Mia how are you this morning only got a high pinks I know everyone says this but I can not.

I'm so glad you did.

Oh I'm so glad you called what's going on.

Okay so this happened like a few months ago over the summer.

But my best friend since like grade school hooked up with my brother like my little brother.

Like my guy friend had to some suspicion so like I asked them both like separately about it and they both denied it and then a few weeks later my friend like drunkenly admitted it to me.

At a bar while we're out okay and so you say was super upset like all the stuff and then like the next day like you were super upset you were super upset.

Yeah I was so upset were you upset because they lied to you or because that happened or both.

Both like more so because like they lied to me like yeah okay I got that.

I'm like everyone in my life knows I'm like the most understanding person ever like yeah it was probably just drunken like nothing but like yeah.

And so the next day like in front her like.

I'm was like super clear all the stuff like I kind of want to take like a little break like I'm just really upset and she just like wasn't really receptive like kept saying how like.

Sorry she was even though like she didn't really seem like she was okay and so much later like I'm still like.

I'm just like lingering just I like said I forgive her but like I haven't really and I feel like it's been months later and I should but I don't really know like what to do now.

Yeah.

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