Is This The End Of The Pod?

My First Million

Hubspot

Entrepreneurship, Investing, Business

4.8 • 2.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2024

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Episode 619: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) do a post-mortem on a fight they had yesterday. — Show Notes: (0:00) Fights don't start as fights (9:08) Gottman's Fourhorseman of the Apocalypse (11:28) The magic ratio of 5:1 (15:42) The body keeps the score (19:36) No winners in war (24:19) Mistaken attribution (26:40) Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy (29:17) The cardinal sin is measuring (32:55) The best relationships are bigger than you (40:00) Identify the skill issue — Links: • Get our business idea database here https://clickhubspot.com/mfm • The Body Keeps the Score - https://tinyurl.com/sf66b2tj • How to Win Friends and Influence People - https://tinyurl.com/4wbafxyf • Fight Right - https://tinyurl.com/pdvub4b4 — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: Need to hire? You should use the same service Shaan uses to hire developers, designers, & Virtual Assistants → it’s called Shepherd (tell ‘em Shaan sent you): https://bit.ly/SupportShepherd — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/ • Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/ • Copy That - https://copythat.com • Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth • Sam’s List - http://samslist.co/ My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by The HubSpot Podcast Network // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano

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0:00.0	All right, we need to talk about this. The podcast is either going to end today, or we're going to figure this out.
0:08.0	That's that dramatic enough for you.
0:10.0	I feel like I can rude the world I know I could be what I want to
0:20.6	Okay Sam can we start I start with an apology? Yes. Can I say sorry? I was, let me check my notes. I was a little pissy yesterday and you were on the receiving end of me being a little pissy.
0:34.4	We had a fight, an argument, a disagreement, a lover's quarrel, I don't know what you want to call it,
0:41.0	we had something and I want to talk about it here.
0:46.7	Not just because I'm a sicko and I'm like, oh, this is good content.
0:51.0	Jerry Springer. But also mostly because I found it,
0:54.0	I thought about it a lot afterwards.
0:55.7	I found it kind of fascinating.
0:57.5	And at first I felt really bad.
0:58.6	I don't know about you, but I felt really horrible
1:00.4	the rest of the day.
1:01.5	So without discussing the specifics, I want to talk about what I
1:05.1	learned after that fight. Can we do that? Okay, so here's the story. We got in a fight yesterday and I wouldn't even call it really a fight.
1:16.0	It's like a every six months there's just disagreements that we had to work through.
1:21.0	Exactly. And like most things, it starts off as a misunderstanding,
1:25.8	turns into a disagreement, which leads to an argument,
1:28.4	we escalates to a fight,
1:29.4	and then it kind of de-escalates into a grumpy agreement,
1:32.2	and you sort of move on.
1:33.0	Can I first tell you why I even wanted to talk about this?
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