Is This A Cimmitted Relationship Or A One Night Stand | Matthew Hussey

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4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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First dates can be so much fun but we tend to make them way too intense when we start overthinking everything. You’ve got the right outfit, hair and makeup are on point, but when it comes to conversation how deep are you willing to go? One of the biggest challenges when you start dating is secretly decoding what he meant when he said that? You start conference-calling your closest friends to play detective and decipher his messaging, but why are you not asking him what you really want to know? Why are women so scared of asking the wrong questions and scaring him off too early? It’s clearly better for us all, emotionally, to find out A.S.A.P is he really into you, does he just want to hook up, or is he really searching for a committed relationship. Matthew Hussey has been giving women massive truth bombs about men, dating, and how to not be broken hearted for years. His YouTube channel is clearly a fan favorite with close to 3 million subscribers and almost half a BILLION views on his content. This bite sized nugget is worth replaying and really thinking through before your next date. If you’re already several dates in, this episode is still for you too. Matthew is very clear that you have to stop dismissing and trying to explain away when your partner is saying difficult things for you to hear. Him: “Not looking for a serious relationship.” You: “Well, one day he will…” Stop getting stuck in cycles and start listening and being brave enough to ask the hard questions that really matter to you. Matthew Hussey has been a guest here on several episodes all binge worthy, and he’s said often, “You can’t scare off the right person for you.” Ask the questions and listen to the answers! Previous Episodes with Matthew Hussey Relationship Truth Bombs: Finding the Right One: https://youtu.be/3xyaIh154HE He’s Not Serious About You: https://youtu.be/pse1IbIc7vM Avoid This Type of Guy: https://youtu.be/y-Oy9VYg4wM When He Doesn’t Value You: https://youtu.be/qW7eC_BAqhQ Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Download For FREE: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here! - https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Make sure you check out the full interview I did with Matthew Hussey right here! - https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/G9GD5F/traffic.megaphone.fm/GRWD9931782208.mp3?updated=1673391422 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:54.0	Here's the rule.
0:56.4	If someone is telling you something that would make their life more difficult to tell you, then it's probably true.
1:11.6	We'll say all sorts of things in service of our pitch.
1:14.6	Right? What's the pitch in dating? For a lot of guys, what's the pitch? The pitch is,
1:19.6	I would like to sleep with you.
1:21.6	That's what I'd like to happen. I'd like for us to sleep together. And if I like you enough,
1:28.2	I'd like for us to have something more or whatever. But right now, we're on a date. I find you
1:33.5	attractive. So anything someone says that helps their pitch, we don't know enough right now.
1:42.8	All we know is we don't know enough to distrust them either.
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