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U Up?

Is There A Way To Salvage A Relationship With Very Different Marriage Timelines?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2021

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

The J’s start the show with a conversation about criticizing a loved one’s appearance without hurting their feelings. A listener writes in to ask how she should bring up her partner’s balding head, and whether or not he’ll be offended by her suggestion to shave it all off. Is there any way to comment on your partner’s appearance without things going horribly wrong? The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a fully masked guy going down on a fully clothed girl. Then another emailer asks whether her recent breakup was inevitable after relocating for each other but not feeling the desire to take it to the next level. Is there an expiration date on a relationship if you’ve been together a long time and aren’t considering marriage? Finally, they close the show with some Red Flag or Deal Breakers, leading to a debate about asking family members to join you on an otherwise romantic vacation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:30.0

Hello and welcome back to the U of podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:35.8

And I am Jared Freed. Jordana is such a pleasure to be back here with you virtually. How

0:40.3

are you? What's going on? What's the deal?

0:43.5

Everything's pretty standard, I would say. Over here in New York, things are exactly the

0:48.0

same. Just boring and as shit as always. I think it's funny because I feel like this is

0:53.7

the year where I put my foot in my mouth constantly because we did a red flag or a deal breaker.

0:59.4

Well, it's funny. A year ago, we did a red flag or a deal breaker about someone who

1:04.7

sanitizes their hands in the subway and we both said it was some lame deal breaker. Then

1:10.1

we got shown. And then I think like six months ago, we did, they wear two masks and we

1:15.9

were like, loser. Now all the articles are saying double-masking. That's the way to

1:23.0

go. So I feel like just when it comes to any sort of CDC guidelines, anything that we think

1:28.3

is a deal breaker is going to be like the new thing that everyone has to do.

1:33.3

We're predicting the future. I don't like, someone ask a red flag deal breaker if we want

1:38.3

to leave the house or not. So that we can start doing that. We'll answer the opposite so

1:43.0

we can change the fortunes of the world right now.

1:46.3

Yeah. It's again, it gets weirder and weirder and more normal and normal at the same time.

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