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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Is There A Difference Between Loving Someone and Being In Love? | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu (Replay)

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2023

⏱️ 58 minutes

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0:00.0

Welcome relationship theory. Let's do it. All right. We need to soak myself up.

0:05.2

Wow. She just battered her toe by the way like right before we started.

0:09.8

I did. I did. Banner my toe. All right guys. Thank you for joining us today. I know it's Tuesday but we try to keep the same time.

0:17.8

This man's busy tomorrow.

0:19.6

What are you doing tomorrow? I don't know. But do submit your questions live in the comments below.

0:25.2

And I'm trying to get to like the quick question.

0:29.5

Okay, so we've been told not to ramble at the beginning. So here we go. Would you rather answer with us guys, drop in the comments.

0:36.2

Would you rather never experience love or never

0:38.8

experience passion well that's a good one wow you know my honest answer is I would never I would

0:45.7

rather never experience I don't know if I could do you think that we could be in love without

0:52.6

having the passion yes yes I could love you but I don't know if I'd be in love with you. What? Like the passion to me, that's what being in love is. Yeah, but I think this is like not passion for each other, but passion for something. That's how I'm going to read that. Because love covers. Yeah, but that theory, homie? Yeah, but that's why it's a would you rather.

1:11.9

It's got to move out of the relationship, right? Come on, people. No? That's not how I read it. I think it's a more interesting thing because that's so nuanced between passion for each other and love for each other. Not that I don't think there's a difference. There is. But that's a far more nuanced.

1:30.2

Oof. To be passionate for each other, but not in love. No, then I would rather love than passion. God, that sounds terrible. Even to say it. Like, I could not finish that sentence. But to have... We actually can't even give an answer. No, I'm giving my answer.

1:44.9

I would rather love without passion.

1:47.7

Like a best friend versus somebody, like I read passion to be physical.

1:54.2

And I would not just want physical passion.

1:56.9

Yeah, I guess I took it.

1:57.9

Because that's like intensity.

1:59.5

Each other.

2:00.3

That's not enough. It's how I took it. I don't know what that means. Well, like I said, if I had to choose. But define passion for your significant other. I'm on fire for you. When I see you in the room, my heart starts like throbbing hard. So then throbbing hard, wow. I thought we were talking about something else here.

2:19.3

But so tell me though, what's the difference between that and love?

2:23.3

Hmm.

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