Is telling them you're leaving better than just leaving?
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 1 December 2021
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
What's the best course of action when it comes to leaving the emotional abuser? Should you sit them down and have the "the talk", or is talking going to get you sucked into another conversation that causes you to stay out of guilt or being convinced you're wrong?
They're likely to convince you of doing things their way so it may not go any differently during "the talk."
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior |
| 0:15.1 | so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:31.5 | Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Hello, welcome to love and abuse. |
| 0:33.9 | All the information in this show is meant for educational purposes only. |
| 0:37.2 | Always seek a professional for your mental wealth and mental wealth. |
| 0:42.3 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:47.1 | Mental wealth, that would be nice too, just being mentally wealthy. |
| 0:51.2 | And always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:54.1 | All right, welcome to the show. |
| 0:55.6 | So glad you're here. |
| 0:56.7 | And I'm going to go over a question that somebody sent me that wants to know if you say |
| 1:03.8 | anything when you're ready to leave a hurtful person or do you just pack your bags and leave? |
| 1:12.1 | Do you address the person saying you've been doing all these things to me and now I'm leaving |
| 1:19.3 | you because of it? |
| 1:20.6 | I can't stand it anymore. |
| 1:21.8 | I can't stand how you're treating me. |
| 1:23.5 | I'm out of here. |
| 1:24.8 | Do you have that conversation or do you pack your bags and leave? And I think it's a great question. |
| 1:31.6 | So I want to address that because if you are considering leaving and you are worried about how it might go, |
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