Is Social Media Ruining Relationships? Proposing To Your Man, Sassy Men & The Hypervisibility Trap
To My Sisters
To My Sisters
4.9 • 917 Ratings
🗓️ 31 May 2026
⏱️ 106 minutes
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In this episode of To My Sisters, Courtney and Renée get into the viral conversation around a woman proposing to her boyfriend of 14 years, the rise of the “sassy man apocalypse,” modern dating dynamics, gender roles, relationship expectations and how social media is shaping the way we love, trust and show up in our relationships. From online outrage and hyper-visibility to comparison, insecurity, spiritual discernment, wise counsel and guarding the sacred parts of your life, this conversation is for every woman trying to navigate relationships, visibility, personal growth and womanhood with wisdom in a world that constantly wants access to everything.
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| 0:00.0 | proposing to your boyfriend of 14. Yes. |
| 0:04.8 | Dang, you've been with this man for a really long time and if he hasn't proposed to you, |
| 0:09.5 | then does he really want to marry you? Like men who are taking up the role of the traditional |
| 0:15.1 | role of women. That's your life. The sassy man is almost a response to the empowered women. |
| 0:21.6 | Have the dynamics changed so much that now the women are doing the pursuing and no longer being pursued? |
| 0:25.6 | The sassy man is somewhat a projection of negative femininity onto men. |
| 0:31.6 | If you don't actually have a vision for where you're going, visibility is irrelevant. |
| 0:35.6 | Because I think, especially now, more than ever before, |
| 0:39.9 | people are seeing visibility as a chance to perform. |
| 0:42.8 | Right. |
| 0:43.6 | I want to be considered first amongst my equals. |
| 0:46.9 | Oh yeah, I need to be outside giving value, |
| 0:49.2 | but you just got here. |
| 0:51.1 | Wait for you on now. |
| 0:52.1 | Wait for your now. |
| 0:56.1 | Hello and welcome to the Two My Sisters podcast. I'm Courtney. |
| 0:59.0 | And I'm Renee and we are your online sisters and hosts of the Two My Sisters podcast. |
| 1:03.3 | We are all about promoting the wellness, growth and development of a community of sisters around |
| 1:07.8 | the world. And in today's podcast episode, we are going to be talking about being proposed to |
| 1:14.3 | after 14 years. |
| 1:16.6 | The reality. |
| 1:17.7 | Proposing to your boyfriend. |
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