get it the virtue. There are some that believe like ultimatums off limits. They should never,

ever, ever happen. I am not one of those people. I think a good, strong ultimatum every now

and then can really be very effective. We got an email the other day from a virtue listener.

He said she wants to get married and she's got this boyfriend that says he wants to get married

to but he's dragging his feed. Should she give him an ultimatum? If you got something going on in

your life and you want to share it with us and we can share it with virtue fam, hit us up at

the birch show dot com. Cassie with the email. Hey birch show. I've listened to you guys through

Facebook and I really value your advice and input to others. I have a mental dilemma that will not

leave me and it's been bothering me for almost a year. I've been with my partner for eight plus

years and we have a two year old daughter. To say the last couple of years with COVID have been

tough has been an understatement for our relationship. We've gone through death in the family,

family drama that comes with death and infidelity. He did did someone while we were together,

all within the past two plus years. We went to counseling and he's been extremely open with me

and he has been 100% there for our daughter. I feel he's coming back into the relationship.

And while all of that has left a scar on a relationship that has begun healing, the major issue is

that is plaguing me is the fact that we're not married. I've brought it up to him a couple of times

when our daughter was born is when I really felt the itch and he said that he wants us to be married

but I don't see anything happening. I've finally said to myself, if he doesn't propose by April 27th,

2023, I am leaving him. The significance of that date is that it's my deceased father's birthday.

Yes, it's symbolic as I don't want to be with a man that made promises just like my dad did to

my mother. I'm working on my daddy issues. I have a therapist, LOL. My question is should I do it?

He has made differences in the relationship and is more present but I don't know how to minimize

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