Get it the virtue she refuses to meet her best friends boy friend

She thinks she's got real good reason, but is she being the a-hole?

Cassie I've known I've known my best friend since the first

Dave kindergarten we had a similar upbringing and for six years

She was my best best friend we lost touch a little but we reconnected a few years ago

And we've remained friends since because we're both in long-term relationships and have demanding jobs

We maybe see each other once every six weeks for a couple of hours on a weekend

We're not best friends anymore

But I care about her because she used to be my best friend and her well-being and I believe she feels the same about me

About a year ago she started talking about moving on without her boyfriend

Just little things here they're like mentioning moving to a place by herself

Telling me she doesn't see them staying together past their least expiring and so forth. I kept my mouth shut

We're not 20-year-olds just figuring out the world

So I've learned over the years to stay out of other people's relationships

The last month or so. She's finally truly seeing she wants out and I've offered to help her in any way that I can

Giving advice on speaking to her landlord offering to go look at apartments when she's ready letting her vent those sorts of things

Well, she finally had the talk with her boyfriend and now he's blaming everything

But himself for the breakup and it's all my fault

And now she's waffling on trying to decide if she wants to stay with him or move on

Her boyfriend blames her job and me for the breakup and she finally got a job making enough to support herself

And she's no longer having to rely on him

And now he feels that she's become snobby and I truly believe he is actually trying to sabotage her job

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