Is P*rn & Cheating Destroying Your Marriage? 7 Secrets Couples NEVER Admit

Dropping Bombs

Brad Lea

Business, Bradlea, Success, Mentor, Coach, Advice, Money, Strategy, Training, Entrepreneurship, Therealbradlea, Entrepreneur, Comedy

4.8 • 2.3K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2025

⏱️ 87 minutes

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Summary

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Would you forgive a cheating spouse? "I had a pornography addiction... that led to an affair," confesses Terry McCabe in this raw Dropping Bombs episode. Brad Lea dives deep with relationship coaches Terry & Katie McCabe—the couple behind The McCabe Life, who transformed their near-collapse marriage into a beacon for millions. Targeting truth-seekers battling hidden addictions and intimacy wars, they expose the "Jezebel spirit," red flags like phone secrecy, and why so many unions crumble under unspoken scandals.

From Terry's coworker affair to Katie's forgiveness journey, the McCabes deliver no-BS strategies to heal after infidelity, reignite passion, set ironclad boundaries, and prevent divorce. Brad grills them on tough truths most avoid: porn's destructive grip, gender differences in cheating, and when to fight vs. walk away. If your relationship's on the edge—or you want to fortify it against modern traps—this episode drops life-saving bombs for entrepreneurs whose home chaos kills business success.

⚠️WARNING: You'll spot red flags in your own life after this—proceed if you're ready for real change.

🔑What You'll Learn:

-Why marriages fail (and how to bulletproof yours)

-The hidden perils of porn addiction in relationships

-Rebuilding trust after betrayal

-When to stay and fight vs. walk away

-Boundaries that save marriages (like full phone transparency)

-Secrets to lasting intimacy & connection

🔗 Resources

Follow The McCabes on IG: @themccabelife

The McCabe Life Website (https://www.themccabelife.com)

*This video discusses overcoming compulsive viewing habits in an educational context for recovery and awareness. Viewer discretion advised for sensitive topics.*

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Brad Lea is a self-made entrepreneur who turned small-town grit into a multi-million-dollar empire. With over 25 years dominating sales and leadership, he's mentored thousands to outsmart, outwork, and out win their competition. His top-rated podcast, Dropping Bombs, brings raw, game-changing insights from the biggest names in business.

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0:00.0	Most people who cheat are addicted to porn, especially men.
0:03.0	If you compare a porn brain to somebody on meth or heroin, they almost look identical.
0:08.0	Kids in their 20s and their teens have a hard time getting it up because they've watched so much porn.
0:13.0	And they're on ED drugs at 22 years old and you're like, dude, you ain't 70.
0:16.0	At the end of the day, if she's beat and drained and tired and she doesn't ever want to have sex but you do
0:22.3	what do you how do you fix that what it is bradley back again with another episode of dropping bombs
0:31.5	today in the studio folks i got a couple with me a real treat as always especially folks if you guys want to get a better relationship.
0:41.4	You guys are being, and they got tons of followers. You guys can follow them.
0:45.8	If you're not already, the McCabe Life on Instagram, the McCabe life.com.
0:51.4	Everywhere is the McCabe life. Yeah. And so we got katie and terry macape yep welcome
0:57.2	welcome to the show yeah well i'm glad to be here yeah well i'm glad you're here only because i
1:01.2	believe firmly that you know i like to help entrepreneurs grow and scale the businesses and a lot of
1:05.7	people have problems at their at their business and they don't realize that it's probably a
1:09.9	relationship problem a marriage problem, a marriage
1:12.9	problem. Yeah. That could manifest into a business problem where they're sitting there trying to
1:17.4	fix a business problem when it's actually the problem at home they're dealing with. Yeah.
1:21.3	So to kind of give people a background. Yeah. You guys obviously got married at some point.
1:29.5	We did.
1:30.1	And then there was a little trauma and turmoil.
1:33.0	Let's go back to the turmoil.
1:35.6	Yeah.
1:36.2	So we got married in 2007.
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