Is My Husband Hiding Money? – Victoria’s Story

Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Education, Sexuality, Relationships, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 7 October 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Are you're wondering, "Is my husband hiding money?" Here's how one woman found out.

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0:00.0	Hey, it's Anne. If you've listened to this podcast, you know I interview women who are dealing with
0:04.5	their husband's lies, anger, or infidelity. I've interviewed over 200 women and counting.
0:10.1	If you relate to anything you hear in this episode, we can help you today. I created our daily
0:15.7	live group sessions because when I was going through it, no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't
0:20.2	find the help I needed.
0:21.7	We know exactly how to help women in this situation.
0:25.1	The entire BTR team has been through it, so we know how to anticipate the issues you're likely to face
0:30.3	when you discover your husband's lives or infidelity.
0:33.6	No matter where you are in the world, we can help you immediately.
0:38.2	Check out our group session schedule at BTR.org slash group.
0:42.2	I have Victoria Ellen on today's episode.
0:46.1	Her story was recently highlighted in a Hulu show called Scam Goddess, Season 1, Episode 6,
0:55.8	The Royal Racket.
1:01.4	Before we get to her story, I want to talk about four things to do if you suspect that your husband is hiding money.
1:02.8	So, number one, recognize the signs of financial deception.
1:07.0	This is going to sound sort of counterintuitive because you'd think it would be all about
1:10.3	money, but is it hard for you to know exactly what he's doing or where he is or when he accounts for his
1:16.9	time, is there something about it that seems kind of off? And then, of course, looking over bank statements,
1:23.7	seeing if you can notice unusual transactions or missing funds.
1:29.3	Number two, keep a journal.
1:34.0	If you suspect that your husband is lying to you about finances or anything else,
1:37.1	keep a journal of your suspicions and conversations.
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