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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Is Low Sex Drive Ruining Your Relationship? What to do! | E370

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

YAP Media Network | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7890 Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Is low sex drive ruining your relationship? All long term couples experience sexual dry spells, whether it's due to stress, hormonal changes, emotional disconnection, or simply being too tired to get frisky at the end of a long day (pro tip: sex does not have to happen at bed time!).  Luckily, it doesn't matter how often you're "doing it" — what matters is that you and your partner know how to navigate periods of low sex drive while keeping your relationship healthy and strong.  It's totally possible, and this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success podcast will show you the way! My guests are Vanessa and Xander Marin, authors of "Sex Talks: The 5 Conversations that Will Transform Your Love Life." Vanessa is a sex therapist, and along with her partner Xander, she's sharing her top tips for keeping low sex drive from ruining your relationship — and for reigniting your sexual spark. I hope you'll join us! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby https://www.growingself.com/  Ps: Ready to transform your relationship? Let's talk: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/  ------

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You're hot, they're not, or vice versa.

0:07.0

Differences in sexual desire are super common in relationships and they're tricky to navigate.

0:13.0

And they're also not necessarily that difficult to resolve if you have a fresh perspective and some effective strategies for how to

0:23.7

handle this whole thing. And that is what you're going to learn about on today's show.

0:32.6

We are enjoying

0:38.2

Slugs of Love by the band Little Dragon.

0:42.9

I think this might be my new favorite song.

0:45.8

As I was putting this together for you today, I noticed that Little Dragon appears to be on

0:51.2

tune right now.

0:52.7

And you can learn more about that on their band camp page.

0:57.2

And welcome to the love, happiness, and success podcast. My goodness, I'm your host, Dr. Lisa

1:03.4

Marie Bobby, and this is the place for growth-oriented people like you to learn how to create

1:10.3

more love, happiness, and success in

1:12.5

their lives. I am a marriage and family therapist, a licensed psychologist, certified coach,

1:18.3

and I am the founder of growing self-counseling and coaching. And I love coming here and talking

1:24.9

with you every week, just putting little things in front of you,

1:28.9

hopefully to help you grow and get more out of life.

1:32.6

And I can tell you as a veteran couples therapist, so many times at the core of relationship

1:41.1

issues are feelings, hurt feelings, sometimes resentment, anger, vulnerability,

1:48.4

that are all related to sexual disconnection. Sometimes sexual disconnection can be the result of other

1:57.5

relationship problems, but feeling disconnected in this part of your life can also

2:03.5

actually cause emotional disconnection, conflict, and other relationship problems. So it's all

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