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U Up?

Is It Time to Start Accepting That Closure Isn’t A Real Thing?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2020

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

Jordana and Jared start the show with a conversation about Halloween and dating. A listener writes in to ask if her boyfriend secretly has a crush on his roommate, and whether or not it’s weird that he and the roommate are doing a couples costume for Halloween. This week’s Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a Halloween costume, a circus theme, and some spontaneous role play. Then another emailer asks if she should hold off on dating again after a difficult breakup. At what point do you admit that you might never get closure and start dating again? Finally, they close things out with some Red Flag or Deal Breakers, including one about using coupons on a first date. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:33.6

Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham. And I am Jared-Free. Jordana,

0:40.8

it's always a pleasure to be back with you virtually. How are you? What's going on? How's your day?

0:48.6

My day is good. My week's pretty pretty good. It's busy, but it's good. We got Halloween coming up,

0:55.7

which I Halloween. I would say this is the great

1:05.4

status Halloween. Oh yeah, this specific Halloween COVID Halloween seems like it's not enjoy.

1:13.9

A lot of pressure to do we do nothing, do we do something, is someone going to get mad at us

1:20.5

for doing something? What's the number on the group? Do we keep it at 10? Who's that 11th person?

1:27.8

You got a sad woman dressed as a pumpkin. Just stuck outside because their friends were like,

1:34.0

you're the 11th. It's a lot of interpersonal things. Beyond that, it's a lot of interpersonal

1:40.3

things for dating and relationships, right? It definitely is. I feel like it's like a...

1:45.8

It's interesting. I mean, it's not as big as some other holidays, obviously, for you're talking

1:50.8

about the wear of anniversaries, birthdays, holidays. I wouldn't know if I'd put Halloween as a

1:56.5

prime breakup time. I would say it's a prime messaging time because Halloween is a hook-up night.

2:06.0

So if you're still in the hook-up world, Halloween is like opportunity to get weird. Men love

2:16.4

it. It's new years. I think it's better than new years. I think inhibition is lost or what's

2:23.8

the right word? Lower inhibition. People are like, and especially during these times. So with

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